We invited my SO's patents to see our LO at the park yesterday and we didn't get a response so I told them that if they ever decided to actually show their grandchild affection and love, they had my number.
Well around 10 last night we received a phone call from my FFIL and he did nothing but yell and scream to the point where we're not even sure what he said. So, as a result I sent them the following message:
Since y'all want to yell at people and tell them how to run their lives, y'all can love Tala from afar. That's what you wanted to do in the first place, so there you go. She doesn't need to be around toxic people who do nothing but yell and not put in any effort to see her or be in her life. This is a joint decision. Goodbye and have a nice life.
I then proceeded to block them on Facebook and their calls. Well, I then received several threatening voice mails talking about everything from "God is going to take what y'all have away because y'all are ungrateful" to "You better return my 20 dollars by midnight or else. "
Then I received the following text messages:
Please bring me my 20 dollars since we are so toxic my wife is asking me to let it go but am offended and I am pissed as well you all have some nerve speak to us this way but I promise you better watch your words due to they may cause you more grief in the future due to god don't like ugly you all started and this is the end of it so which ever one of you has the intestinal fortitude to call or text please save it build your family and act like parents ad and this is the end of it so which ever one of you has the intestinal fortitude to call or text please save it build your family and act like parents and not a sorry baby momma and a sorry baby daddy letting another man or woman raise your child no matter what the relation to it is. Both of you all parents has raised or still in the process of raising their kids you raise yours We are not going to no park to meet you to see our grand baby y'all live 3 doors away you better recognize you blessing and take advantage of 125 rent some parents are in homeless shelters with they kids trying you have everything right in front of your damn eyes and are to blind to see it you ask for a home and god gave you one you ask for a job and you got it and this is still isn't good enough for one of you. Y'all better wake up Take advantage of what you have and be grateful cause you could loose your job or your truck tonight then what are you gonna do. Austin could get drug tested tomorrow or they loose the contract again or your transmission could break or head gasket blows then what are you all gonna do then. After tonight don't look at -ADDRESS- for anything we are done
1. SO is clean but they don't know that
2. We're sorry parents because we decided to let my mom and dad babysit her.
3. Me and her don't stay down at that house because it's not healthy. There is black mold, copperhead snakes, and spiders the size of your fist.
I didn't respond. I kept my cool and let them stew in their pit of insanity.
Did I handle this right? And yes, their are officially CO.
ETA: blanked out address and spelling
Well around 10 last night we received a phone call from my FFIL and he did nothing but yell and scream to the point where we're not even sure what he said. So, as a result I sent them the following message:
Since y'all want to yell at people and tell them how to run their lives, y'all can love Tala from afar. That's what you wanted to do in the first place, so there you go. She doesn't need to be around toxic people who do nothing but yell and not put in any effort to see her or be in her life. This is a joint decision. Goodbye and have a nice life.
I then proceeded to block them on Facebook and their calls. Well, I then received several threatening voice mails talking about everything from "God is going to take what y'all have away because y'all are ungrateful" to "You better return my 20 dollars by midnight or else. "
Then I received the following text messages:
Please bring me my 20 dollars since we are so toxic my wife is asking me to let it go but am offended and I am pissed as well you all have some nerve speak to us this way but I promise you better watch your words due to they may cause you more grief in the future due to god don't like ugly you all started and this is the end of it so which ever one of you has the intestinal fortitude to call or text please save it build your family and act like parents ad and this is the end of it so which ever one of you has the intestinal fortitude to call or text please save it build your family and act like parents and not a sorry baby momma and a sorry baby daddy letting another man or woman raise your child no matter what the relation to it is. Both of you all parents has raised or still in the process of raising their kids you raise yours We are not going to no park to meet you to see our grand baby y'all live 3 doors away you better recognize you blessing and take advantage of 125 rent some parents are in homeless shelters with they kids trying you have everything right in front of your damn eyes and are to blind to see it you ask for a home and god gave you one you ask for a job and you got it and this is still isn't good enough for one of you. Y'all better wake up Take advantage of what you have and be grateful cause you could loose your job or your truck tonight then what are you gonna do. Austin could get drug tested tomorrow or they loose the contract again or your transmission could break or head gasket blows then what are you all gonna do then. After tonight don't look at -ADDRESS- for anything we are done
1. SO is clean but they don't know that
2. We're sorry parents because we decided to let my mom and dad babysit her.
3. Me and her don't stay down at that house because it's not healthy. There is black mold, copperhead snakes, and spiders the size of your fist.
I didn't respond. I kept my cool and let them stew in their pit of insanity.
Did I handle this right? And yes, their are officially CO.
ETA: blanked out address and spelling