I have another thread here about a multi family vacation. This thread is about my mil who was with us. I don't spend a to of time with her but there were some things that annoyed me while she was here. I just want to make sure it's not overflow from my parental issues or it is/hormones and I should get over it.
1. She questioned us changing hotels/when check in was because we had dinner plans and wanted to make sure we checked out/had everything sorted.
2. When a stranger was commenting on me being Prego with my 4th I said I could have another one. She said she would "cut me off" from having children- joking of course.
3. Made a few comments on my children's eating habits while we were all there eating.
4. Made a religious comment when she found out I ended up in the er towards the end of vacay knowing how we feel about it.
When we had announced our pregnancy to her (with this baby) there was no congratulations. She was worried about us being able to afford the baby and seemed genuinely upset that we were pregnant again. My dh said she apologized to him, but didn't to me and I was upset for a few months. She still has not really asked me about the pregnancy/baby or anything else and just seems disinterested. Not that she has to be but she had been previously with the others.
Any thoughts?
1. She questioned us changing hotels/when check in was because we had dinner plans and wanted to make sure we checked out/had everything sorted.
2. When a stranger was commenting on me being Prego with my 4th I said I could have another one. She said she would "cut me off" from having children- joking of course.
3. Made a few comments on my children's eating habits while we were all there eating.
4. Made a religious comment when she found out I ended up in the er towards the end of vacay knowing how we feel about it.
When we had announced our pregnancy to her (with this baby) there was no congratulations. She was worried about us being able to afford the baby and seemed genuinely upset that we were pregnant again. My dh said she apologized to him, but didn't to me and I was upset for a few months. She still has not really asked me about the pregnancy/baby or anything else and just seems disinterested. Not that she has to be but she had been previously with the others.
Any thoughts?