So since coming out pregnant I made it VERY clear that I wouldn't want DH relatives (aunts/uncles) at the hospital or our home. (They've done some pretty messed up things to me along my pregnancy & even before when I was dating DH they belittled me so I gave up wanting a relationship with them).
Today my MIL calls to let me know she's going to be having all them come over at the hospital and visit afterwards at home. DH had already promised from months back that was not going to be the case that they would NOT be around and now he's like "once in a blue moon" they can visit and they're allowed at the hospital. He sided with my witch of a mil and now she's calling the shots as if she's the one delivering baby-- she's even brought up the idea that she wants to be at the hospital once I go into labor when I had already said I wanted no one there. I wanted all this privacy and now it seems far fetch
I'm upset and we got in a huge blow out to the point where I started having contractions. I feel so played and lied to like I'm sick of this shit. None of my relatives will be there so why have his? His mom wants to act like its her baby but she's never even been there for me. She actually told me how my baby would die during the first trimester because my morning sickness was so bad and recently went as far as looking straight at my boobs to demand I do formula because my boobs weren't growing which to her meant I wouldn't be making enough milk. What do I do!
Today my MIL calls to let me know she's going to be having all them come over at the hospital and visit afterwards at home. DH had already promised from months back that was not going to be the case that they would NOT be around and now he's like "once in a blue moon" they can visit and they're allowed at the hospital. He sided with my witch of a mil and now she's calling the shots as if she's the one delivering baby-- she's even brought up the idea that she wants to be at the hospital once I go into labor when I had already said I wanted no one there. I wanted all this privacy and now it seems far fetch
I'm upset and we got in a huge blow out to the point where I started having contractions. I feel so played and lied to like I'm sick of this shit. None of my relatives will be there so why have his? His mom wants to act like its her baby but she's never even been there for me. She actually told me how my baby would die during the first trimester because my morning sickness was so bad and recently went as far as looking straight at my boobs to demand I do formula because my boobs weren't growing which to her meant I wouldn't be making enough milk. What do I do!
