My MOO Can't seem to grasp that I don't want her in the delivery room. I have my husband and a birth doula. I don't want anyone else in there. My moo can't ever not talk, she is a boundary stomping selfish woman. She has never been compassionate, or particularly nurturing so why would I want her there? She asked me a few weeks ago if I was going to have her there or MIL there for the birth. I said neither, I have DH and doula and I'm really not interested in anyone else I'm related to seeing my vagina. Well just today she texted me and said "do you seriously not want me there when the baby comes?" I just want to say this nicely without a confrontation. Please tell me how to do this without causing a fight because this isn't up for debate.
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