So my asshat of a DuH decided on Father's Day weekend that he was so stressed out being the only bread winner that it would be easier and cheaper to pay child support. He also said he wants to just concentrate on his career for the next 6 months (he's heading a huge contract at work) and when that's done, we can reassess our relationship. Meaning no contacting or seeing me or his child. I am still wrapping my head around this. So, I moved myself and DD home to my mom's bc I was a SAHM and have zero income right now.
DD has a birthday coming up next month and my ILs, who know what's going on, want to come down to celebrate. There's nothing planned and I didn't invite them. I got a text from my FIL saying he would see us in July. Didn't ask. Told me. And MIL sent a text saying she hopes that I will allow them to be a part of DD's life no matter what happens with DuH and me. I know that they're innocent in the situation, but I simply can't handle it. Especially since their son wob't be making the effort to be there for his own child.
Am I an awful person to not want them there? How do I handle this diplomatically?
DD has a birthday coming up next month and my ILs, who know what's going on, want to come down to celebrate. There's nothing planned and I didn't invite them. I got a text from my FIL saying he would see us in July. Didn't ask. Told me. And MIL sent a text saying she hopes that I will allow them to be a part of DD's life no matter what happens with DuH and me. I know that they're innocent in the situation, but I simply can't handle it. Especially since their son wob't be making the effort to be there for his own child.
Am I an awful person to not want them there? How do I handle this diplomatically?
