Sometimes i just want to scream
I'm currently pregnant with our first l.o.... my family and I are not close.. My mom has bipolar & borderline personality.. (i figured it out as an adult..) i endured years of physical and mental...
View ArticleI am headed for divorce over mil!
Old member, new account for privacy. I have a few fm on this site. Quick BG: I've had an on/off again relationship with duh. We have 2 children ages 14 and 3 together. Married 2 years. I am a sahm. My...
View Article4th of July is coming. Need your help!
Hello ladies! This whole mess is my fault, but I really need your help. My MIL and I are not friends. She tries to be nice to me but sometimes would feel the need to give me an idea of what she really...
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I don't know what to do about my crazy FMIL
There is way too much back story to even explain but basically my FMIL has serious mental health issues. I could go into grave detail about how messed up my SO childhood was or his sibling's childhood...
View ArticlePast the point of no return? MIL trouble (UD 3, 6)
My MIL has had a chip on her shoulder ever since my son was born in December because we decided that we didn't want anyone at the hospital until after he was born and we all had some time together. I...
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I texted in the middle of the night the CO grandma
Grandma is 90. BG..she has been a huge enabler of my biomom who was found guilty of child abuse and neglect against me. She raised me for part of my childhood and I used to think I was close to her,...
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I don't know what to do... *possible trigger* they showed up 13, again and FM 15
Okay so I never thought I would actually be posting here. I have been lurking for a little while (during my pregnancy I am 22 weeks now). I have been starting to come out of the fog with my awesome...
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Is my normal meter broken? Pg 40 Package from MIL Pg 64 NEW MESSAGES
She's mostly pretty great but my normal meter may be broken. I don't have a relationship with my mother so I have grown close with her, at least I thought I had. The latest has to do with my health....
View ArticleGrowing up with a narcissistic mom
Just curios as to how your relationships are with so , friends , and children if any . Growing up my mom was a financial mother . Nothing more I can remember the last time I hugged my mom was when I...
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13 year old frozen meat!
My mother in law is the biggest hoarder! She does things like reuse ziplock bags, saves foil, she re-fills watter bottles, she saves all the butter/ sour cream tubs... but she freezes the meat shes...
View ArticleFMIL wants to run my household
Not a new member, but lurk on my other account. I'm trying to seek advice on dealing with my FMIL. I moved from the south to the west coast for my now fiance. We were in a LDR and spent most of the...
View ArticleDuH family ruined my pregnancy & post partum...update page 7, 14, 16...
Since DD has been born i have noticed my feelings twoards my husbands family have changed. Before DD was born i was happy around them and got along with most of my DH family. During my pregnancy i felt...
View Articlehow do I handle ILs during a separation? UD pg 11, another VM pg 13
So my asshat of a DuH decided on Father's Day weekend that he was so stressed out being the only bread winner that it would be easier and cheaper to pay child support. He also said he wants to just...
View ArticleSending back unwanted gifts
My partner (not married) DP is in LC with his mum. Me and our 3 kids (2 mine from previous relationship and 1 together) Have put her in TO. Since TO she has stopped sending non bio kids birthday cards...
View Article4th of July is coming. Need your help! UD pg.6
Hello ladies! This whole mess is my fault, but I really need your help. My MIL and I are not friends. She tries to be nice to me but sometimes would feel the need to give me an idea of what she really...
View ArticleI am headed for divorce over mil!
Old member, new account for privacy. I have a few fm on this site. Quick BG: I've had an on/off again relationship with duh. We have 2 children ages 14 and 3 together. Married 2 years. I am a sahm. My...
View Articlehow do I handle ILs during a separation? UD pg 11, 13, 18, 19
So my asshat of a DuH decided on Father's Day weekend that he was so stressed out being the only bread winner that it would be easier and cheaper to pay child support. He also said he wants to just...
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MIL and EBF 2 week old
My MIL will be visiting and I need some advice on how to handle her...she is the type that will make comments about how I'm feeding my EBF son (2 weeks old) too much...i know this will happen because...
View ArticleI just read that narcissistic mom thread
Narcissistic moms could be a group on its own, huh? It makes me feel better to know I'm not alone. I'm still crying randomly when i think about what a lie my relationship with my mom has been. I think...
View ArticleDWIN-Dealing with neighbor?
I didn't know where to post this. My husband thinks I was out of line, I disagree. So I am wanting to know if maybe I was (I have a 2 week old baby at home so possibly a bit sleep deprived). There...
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