MIL RUINING VACAY 481: "I'm moving out like a big boy." (All updates in...
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Moving across the country from my FOO...
Long time lurker gone anonymous. My usual sn ia my real name. Read the sticky and my big girl panties are on. This will be lengthy but the background is important. I do hope you will read this and...
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Dealing with MIL who does not respect my wishes
I posted this in my birthboard and a few mamas auggested i come over here so here I am... Ok ladies so I've been married for 3 yrs. I have a beautiful baby girl who will be 2 in September. This is the...
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Aunt in prison, raising kids. Advice?
Allright DWILers, need some advice and pointers. BG: Five years ago my aunt left her husband. She has two children, at the time 14 (daughter) and 7 (son). They moved into a shelter, and because of...
View ArticleAnxious update pg 2, 3,5,7
Well I thought we had everything under control. I've been dealing with my mil for over two years now, and I just feel defeated. I guess I will just start with the bg. Everything was just fine when we...
View ArticleAnxiety issues
I'm 30 weeks pregnant, have almost 10 month old twins and a 4 year old. We finally got to the point of co my mom and even then if she sincerely apologizes and goes to therapy herself dh and I would...
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"boundaries-9" emails 12, 14, letter 15, and the CRAZIEST THING I HAVE EVER...
A sick asshole is still an asshole, right? I believe I've seen this and other thoughts on the matter on here, but I'm needing help remembering/feeling less guilty. Background:...
View ArticleParents bought me a house
My parents bought the house next door to where they live and wanted us to live there and only have to pay rent which would be the loan payment they owe back each month for getting the place. I made...
View ArticleMIL
Last night I told my husband I don't want to name our child his name choice. This morning I get a call from MIL saying that they had already planned on using this name and that since its her last...
View ArticleGrandparent favoritism... Long and needing advice
I've put up with it for over three years now, and last week was the last straw for me. I should probably give a little background... My dad and stepmom pretty much raise my 7 & 3 yo nieces. Even...
View ArticleFMIL wants to run my household
Not a new member, but lurk on my other account. I'm trying to seek advice on dealing with my FMIL. I moved from the south to the west coast for my now fiance. We were in a LDR and spent most of the...
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Where do we go from here? 2, 7, 8, F8 *trigger*, 12, 17, noms 17, 18,...
This will probably be lengthy, so I apologize in advance. Some BG: DH is the golden child, for sure. SIL gets shit on a lot for her weight, etc. she handles it a lot better than I would. MIL is bipolar...
View ArticleCan you explain "don't emote" to me?
I've seen advice given here where people are told not to emote for their spouse, and I'm trying to get a better handle on it. My MIL has been behaving badly, and my DH is finally starting to realize...
View ArticleNot an in-law issue, but is a family issue
I'll attempt to make it short, but I know it'll be long, also that everything will come together in the end. First, I have several kids, oldest who is a pre-teen is our only dd. Now, dd is very social,...
View ArticleHusband deployed CO moo texting him ud pg 4, 5,9 Noms 11,12-13
So a little back ground. I had lo in August, I stopped talking to my mom beginning of July after my baby shower. I found out on the way to my shower that she had left my step dad again. This time for...
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MIL tried to find my therapist
My husband accidentally leaked that I went to therapy to work on myself. My MIL is now asking everyone if they know where I go or who I see and even tried calling around to ask where I go. She wants to...
View ArticleSIL's 2500 word diatribe-update pompous email
I have posted on here before about my in-laws and received great advice. Over the past few months my husband has been coming to the realization that his relationships with his parents/sister are very...
View ArticleUpdate Pg 2 - Got letter from parents' therapist
TLDNR: My parents are critical and controlling. They said horrible things to and about my husband and kids when I was deathly ill. They've never really gotten along with my husband. We've cut them...
View ArticleNot sure where to go from here
I've been lurking on the board for a couple months now and trying to read some of the books from the sticky and just try to gain awareness and figure out how I move on from here. It's pretty long but I...
View ArticleBad Therapist or Bad DuH?
Going anon to make sure DH doesn't find this, he knows about my account. BG: We have a nine month old LO and problems with MIL and FIL started after I gave birth. MIL in particular (who is a classic...
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