Narcissistic moms could be a group on its own, huh? It makes me feel better to know I'm not alone. I'm still crying randomly when i think about what a lie my relationship with my mom has been. I think i could have ignored almost anything, but nobody fucks with my child's innocence. My narc mom doesn't like that I'm not spending time with my brother (he's a lot like her) cuz I'm worried he will be a bad influence and possibly sexually abuse my son. (Long story.) She responded by buying him a house on my street. When I cut her off, she told everyone I was jealous that she bought him a house. My god mother is the one who told me about my mom talking shit cuz she heard it through the grapevine. She wanted to know the truth so I told her. I've decided that if anyone has the balls to confront me on mom's behalf, I will tell them the whole truth. But I don't think too many will since even my own dad (who I'm on good terms with) isn't even asking me what happened.
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It's going to take at least 2 years to save up enough money to move. Would you give up the extended family you actually care about because you don't want to see a few bad eggs? For a minute I considered still going to family events because I want my kid to know my cousins and stuff. But I don't want my mom and bro to have access to him. Also, I feel like I gotta stick to my guns, especially after mom pissed in my face.
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It's going to take at least 2 years to save up enough money to move. Would you give up the extended family you actually care about because you don't want to see a few bad eggs? For a minute I considered still going to family events because I want my kid to know my cousins and stuff. But I don't want my mom and bro to have access to him. Also, I feel like I gotta stick to my guns, especially after mom pissed in my face.