Okay so I never thought I would actually be posting here. I have been lurking for a little while (during my pregnancy I am 22 weeks now). I have been starting to come out of the fog with my awesome DH. He has been helping me see manipulations and other things that my MOO and FOO have been doing. Basically my mom is a super emotional manipulator and everything is about her and I always thought my dad wasn't really in on it but after reading so much I know that he is an enabler. So after Mother's Day yesterday I sent my mom a text message... I probably shouldn't have but I already did and I am pretty sure I started World War 3. I am super scared and have no idea where to go from here or what to do. This may just be residual manipulation but I really just want to unsend what I sent and not have to deal with this... 
Basically what started it though was multiple people wished me a happy mother's day yesterday and at the very end of the night (we went over to my parents house for dinner) she gives me a hug goodbye and says next year you will get a mothers day. and then all last night and this morning it was just eating away at me so I sent the message. I'll include the message and my parents responses.
Not in text they called my cell phone and my house phone after I sent it. I didn't pick up, then my dad texted and then my mom. Help.
There is more background and I will provide more this is just all I can think about right now and I don't want to go into a super long background novel.
*possible trigger*
P.S. Angel Bro is a trisomy baby that my mom had that didn't make it (passed away on due date) and 1.5 year bro is her rainbow baby.
