How do you deal with a grand parent favoring one of you children over the other?
My mother only ever seems to be interested in my four year old ds, and pretty much ignores my 11 mo. She lives 5 hours away from us. Sends packages frequently but only for the oldest. I never keep the gifts. When she calls never asks after the baby. She never bothered to meet lo until he was 3mo.
My boys have lots of people that love them. I want to shelter them from such ugliness. I already have her on very low contact as she sets me on edge for other reason. Anything else I should be doing?
My mother only ever seems to be interested in my four year old ds, and pretty much ignores my 11 mo. She lives 5 hours away from us. Sends packages frequently but only for the oldest. I never keep the gifts. When she calls never asks after the baby. She never bothered to meet lo until he was 3mo.
My boys have lots of people that love them. I want to shelter them from such ugliness. I already have her on very low contact as she sets me on edge for other reason. Anything else I should be doing?