I am due in October already I am getting word my MIL and her church friends are making plans to take turns holding my baby during church service. I didnt allow anyone to hold DD much and got bad mouthed bad for it. My MIL and I are not close so her friends would ask to hold DD and then when i turn my back they would give my baby to MIL. Totally pissed me off. My husband grew up in this church and the women feel entitled to hold his kids like they held him. How do I deal with this? MIL has been on time out for 6 months now. We don't
speak at all and she visits DD once a week for 1 hour with husband not me. Hubby doesn't understand time out but goes with my requests not to have his mother around me. I have responsibilities at church so I have to be there but I don't want lots casts and people harassing me to hold my son soon as I walk in the door. And them possibly giving my child to MIL and then I have to be the villain and take the baby from her. Advice please!
speak at all and she visits DD once a week for 1 hour with husband not me. Hubby doesn't understand time out but goes with my requests not to have his mother around me. I have responsibilities at church so I have to be there but I don't want lots casts and people harassing me to hold my son soon as I walk in the door. And them possibly giving my child to MIL and then I have to be the villain and take the baby from her. Advice please!