My DH is military and we are lucky to live on the opposite side of the country from my IL's. His parents are divorced and he is very close to his dad, not so much to his mom. My problem is this....my father in law is visiting us right now (and staying with us) and he has a tendency to tease about everything! From what I do with my DS to how I cook, to how I pick up...he just picks everything but I can't get offended because "he's just messing with me." My DH does this as well but I can tell him to shut the **** up, my FIL, will probably shouldn't, but, I'm close to doing it anyway.
My nerves are extremely tense right now. We are moving in 1 weeks to be near my mother who is terminally ill, my son is acting up and is stressing me out and, I'm trying to get our house ready to move. My DH is also working longer hours than ever in his last week at this base. Bad timing, everywhere.
It's not wrong to just tell my FIL that I've had enough and he can shut up or leave? My DH is working all week so it's just me, him and my son who could care less if grandpa is around.