we don't know what to do... help?
Me and my fiance both have a son of our own from previous relationships. His son just turned 3 and mine just turned 2. His mom gets his son on the weekends and we go over there all day saturday and...
View ArticleSister hates my SD *Update lawn tantrum
Hello oh wise DWILers! I have lurked here for a very long time and read almost daily. I'm breaking the silence in hopes of some guidance. DH and I have CO my sister. There is a lot of BG, containing...
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Two birthdays? Is this normal?
I am in the process of divorcing my husband. It's a low-conflict divorce and we remain good friends, I doubt if this is going to change much. We have twins who will be 1 at the end of the month. We...
View ArticleShould I let this go for my DH? *trigger*
New screen name to be anonymous. So BG: **trigger** When DH was 20 he was arrested for child pornography. In no way would DH would look at that. He was shocked when the police arrested him and told him...
View ArticleAdvice Dealing With the Debil, Labor, and Family
Hey guys, I have about 10 weeks left before I give birth to LO. Some days it seems like forever and other days it seems like I have hardly any time left to prep! Here is my quandary: MOO has been CO...
View ArticleSister is a liar update: 3, 4, 6, 9, THREATS 10, $ pg 17, 19, PACKAGE 19
Hi all! I am a lurker mainly. I have been waiting for an opportunity to come up in my family, because it is inevitable. I think something came up yesterday, but need your advice. BG: I have a sister...
View ArticleWhat do you guys make of this?
so DH and I were at it with PIL for an entire year. We put the on several TO's and I got to the point where I was ready to do a total CO. Cue finding out the MIL legitimately had Breast cancer. We...
View ArticleIn laws want to come stay... Again
A little BG: DHs mom died after years of alcoholism when he was 14. His dad met a woman and moved her and her two teenage kids into his home 3 months later. SM proceeded to throw away all of his moms...
View ArticleDuH and Bad In-Laws UD 3, 4
Hi, Old member, new name. Sorry for any grammatical errors in advance. I have been with my husband since 2012, married since 2014. In the beginning of our relationship things seemed very normal. I...
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PIL leaving food out that DS can't have.Advice please.
I'm an old lurker with a new screen name. I logged out a few months ago and while trying to log back in I seem to have forgotten the password to my old account. The few months I have become...
View Article"I'm just messing with you" - or my FIL visits
My DH is military and we are lucky to live on the opposite side of the country from my IL's. His parents are divorced and he is very close to his dad, not so much to his mom. My problem is this....my...
View ArticleBEC sister in law. DH talk pg 4, SIL txt pg 6 & 8, nom pg 17, up pg 24
My sil is coming in two weeks for dd birthday. I can't stand her. Every time I see her I do my best to avoid her until she eventually corners me. A little bg: She is dating a real loser. He doesn't...
View ArticleKeep my baby away from that VISCOUS DOG!!!
This weekend we stayed with our in laws. They have a large aggressive dog. Our dogs always leave with some kind of minor wound until we said that's enough and didn't let them play together anymore,...
View ArticleCO between family
How do you guys handle cut offs between other family members? The situation doesn't involve me but I feel as if I'm in the middle of it...
View ArticleSister hates my SD **BG and full UPDATE PG 31**
Hello oh wise DWILers! I have lurked here for a very long time and read almost daily. I'm breaking the silence in hopes of some guidance. DH and I have CO my sister. There is a lot of BG, containing...
View ArticleLunatic In Laws : latest update page 53!!! New drama.
My SIL and MIL have never liked anyone my husband dated. My SIL is a nutcase who despised all of his exes yet decided to be best friends with them all once I came around, insisting they be invited to...
View ArticleDe-enmeshing and a "loan" UD 2, 4, 5, 6, *trigger* 8, 10, 12
Created a new account for anonymity because I don't want to get into complex/controversial BG. Brief BG: My parents have always had impossible expectations of me and have verbally abused me my entire...
View ArticleIn laws want to come stay... Again. Plot twist page 8, 12
A little BG: DHs mom died after years of alcoholism when he was 14. His dad met a woman and moved her and her two teenage kids into his home 3 months later. SM proceeded to throw away all of his moms...
View Articleoffering up our bedroom to PILs for 3 weeks
DuH brought this up today, stating we could sleep on the air mattress in LO's room with the added benefit of training LO to sleep in her crib (currently co sleeping). He said whatever I want is fine,...
View Articlemil requiring us to pay her parent plus loan
Hi there, I am new to this forum but have been reading posts on here periodically and have wanted to participate for a while. I am looking for outside opinions on how to deal with a new financial...
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