This weekend we stayed with our in laws. They have a large aggressive dog. Our dogs always leave with some kind of minor wound until we said that's enough and didn't let them play together anymore, which caused us to be "overprotective of them playing like dogs". Baby is almost 3 months. I made it very clear to my MIL I didn't want the dog near her. He kept trying to sniff her and I said I wasn't comfortable with that and I didn't trust him and again, didn't want them together. We got to her house tonight after visiting other family and took the dog away from the baby and put him outside. We both said we didn't want the dog near her and went to go to the bathroom and clean up. I came back out and the dog was leaning over her on the ground sniffing her!!! I freaked out, told them both that again I didn't want him around her! She said "he's just curious" I said I didn't care, I don't want him around her. My FIL said "ARE YOU SERIOUS!?“. I SAID I WAS DEAD SERIOUS! I am so mad still. My MIL called me today after my husband said she needed to apologize. It was a bullsh*t apology. She just went around the fact she disobeyed my wishes and said she was sorry but I have to apparently best her over the head next time because she doesn't remember me saying I didn't want him around her. IT WAS MADE CLEAR MORE THAT 5 TIMES BY BOTH OF US! She lies to my husband all the time about things I “don't do“ when he's not THERE, then he gets mad at me. I need some help on how to deal with these two. They are very over opinionated and refuse to listen to us! They think we're dumb and young yet we are both VERY smart, PROTECTIVE and ALMOST 30. My husband has a hard time standing up to them because they just argue and don't agree with anything we say. He's used to it, I'm not. We're also financially stable so I'm a stay at home mommy and they don't agree with that either. HELP!!!!
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