I think my mother in law is sabotaging my relationship!

So I live in the Nederland (in a small village) .last Christmas I went with my bf to Amsterdam to spend some time with my parents.my mother in law is always annoying me with her visitation. Always criticizing me about this and that


Ok so I was pissed becos my bf called his sister(whom is also a bitch to me) and said "She was at our house" whiles we aren't there. And my bf asked why she was there?she went there with her mother(my mother in law) and am probably sure they went through my baby stuff en other things too

And yes ,they did go through my stuff (the stroller my mom gifted me was wrapped)and she tore everything open and showed my sister in law.

I told my bf dat his mom is disrespectful and he should talk to her but comes to think of it now he didn't talk to his mum ,he lied and told me he did talk to his mum and his dad got pissed and he asked for the house key back but just last week his parents were here and my son was sick so we rushed out and I said "oh I need to lock the door and his mum said no don't worry we have the keys" I said huh?

So I knew my bf is lying

He is always over there even if our son is sick,fixing stuff for them ,leaving me and my son home.

He mum always complain that she needs to babysit and when I go to work(he doesn't work) he sneaks my son to his parents.

My mother in law actually asked me if I was legal in holland becos I'm black and my bf is white

She is just unbelievable

Always making sneaky comments abt my family and my stupid bf thinks she didn't mind it like that.


I'm thinking. Abt leaving my bf because he will never change and also he is a momma's boy who drinks everyday and he mom thinks is normal to drink everyday whiles I work.

Any advice ladies? Thanks