How would you handle this. Update p10
I've been a lurker and occassional poster for a year or more so I know how this board works. I am the future MIL in this situation and I need the cold,hard honest truth on how to handle this My son and...
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I'm a regular member going anonymous for privacy reasons. I don't have any background on my other account so you're not missing anything, and I know the drill (if it takes me a while to respond it's...
View Article"no girls allowed"
My husband and I have 4 children, 8 year old twin girls, a 6 year old boy and a 4 year old boy. For a number of reasons, my MIL didn't meet our twins until our 6 year old was born, but she's been a...
View ArticleI think my mother in law is sabotaging my relationship!
So I live in the Nederland (in a small village) .last Christmas I went with my bf to Amsterdam to spend some time with my parents.my mother in law is always annoying me with her visitation. Always...
View ArticleIn laws hope to see us fail
Hi all. Firstly, an introduction about me. I'm a BBC member who recently started to lurk this group. I've read the sticky, few posts, and feel I should post for better understanding. I'm using a...
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Are we in the wrong? Help supporting DF
Longtime lurker.. First time posting and I'm shocked it's about DF's family and not mine. My mom is classic NPD, father classic enabler, sister GC, me scapegoat. Been on LC for years, done therapy,...
View ArticleDH finally coming out of the fog
I posted here a while ago without thoroughly going through the sticky, and I wasn't ready for what people had to say. I've been lurking ever since, and boy have I learned a LOT! Lots of bg here...and...
View ArticleBad mom
BG: DH and I have been together for 11 years and I have 1 DS 6mo. DH can be a Duh when it comes to ILs MIL is my BEC On LC with ILs I hope I'm explaining myself let me know if there's anything I need...
View ArticleMIL won't give me my baby back when she is crying
I'm a long time lurker here. My MIL has a history of boundary stomps ever since DH and I started dating. She literally doesn't understand the concept of boundaries. The first red flag was when DH and I...
View ArticleSIL and MIL becoming my BECs after LO's birth. UD5,12,14,20,31,35,37,46,53,...
I have some background here already, the issues pertaining to my in-laws might be relevant:...
View ArticleMil confronted me. UD 5,6,12,18,24,26. BSC need help! 28, UD 34,38
My MIL confronted me and I need advice on how to tell my SO. On Saturday we went to a party for SO uncle. SO and FIL were off playing a game, I was sitting with MIL and my lo. Lo is 8 months. After...
View ArticleMoo
I have some history on here, remission of caner I was diagnosed with cancer at 35. Cut of my dad thanks to you all, he was a horrible dad and sexually inappropriate with my sister and I. My current...
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Please Help! Feeling Harassed
Long time lurker, occasional poster in a more private manner. Going public this time because we really need help. Lots of background. Pretty much, MIL threw a tantrum in January of last year because DH...
View ArticleGrandparents taking grandkids to live?
I need advice on if this is normal in my situation. Some may have seen my previous posts on other boards. My husband is a heroin addict. I had a police escort with me to take my kids because my...
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This group: Readiness, willingness, and desensitization
I've been busy this summer. Busy with good things. So, I haven't been around as often as I'd like to be. Recently something happened that made me want to take the time to post. The other day, I was...
View ArticleMIL and FIL overstepping boundaries - 1st day watching her as I go back to work
Hi everyone, I am a new poster, but long time advice seeker/lurker of this site...but after today I really need to post and ask some advice. I'm sorry, its long. Also...I am new to posting, so if I did...
View ArticleIn laws still visiting with us for summer, going to be back for Thanksgiving
I've been a lurker of the group for a while and been very hesitant to post for advice. I don't know why. Lurking posts to read advice given helps, but no two people are alike in how they go about their...
View ArticleHow would you handle this. Update p10,18,30
I've been a lurker and occassional poster for a year or more so I know how this board works. I am the future MIL in this situation and I need the cold,hard honest truth on how to handle this My son and...
View Article“…but what about the graaandparents?!”
I’ve been a member of BBC for a few months and have lurked on this board but have gone anon due to my screen name. This is going to be long so thank you for taking the time to read through this post....
View Articlei was CO
Need advice. I was CO over 20 years ago for marrying oustside of race. Though hurtful, glad for the CO. Impending funeral of beloved grandfather, whom never CO me or anyone out. I just need some...
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