I have some history on here, remission of caner I was diagnosed with cancer at 35. Cut of my dad thanks to you all, he was a horrible dad and sexually inappropriate with my sister and I. My current problem is my mother. I shut down the info train a while ago and always use " we my husband and I will talk about it" this is hard for her being divorced for 30 years but she is in training. I recently took a 2 month loa from work. I never really processed the cancer and let my GP keep me on way way to many meds. I had a break down at work and realized I was not happy. I was angry, sad, tired and frustrated with my life. I found a good therapist and a good psychiatrist. I had to let my mother know what was up. Oye, know she tells me she doesn't sleep because she is worried about me. Just to be clear, I decided my life wasn't healthy, I was not being a good mom and am taking the steps to fix this. Get off all the meds, get my anger under control and now she is worried. She offered to pay for my therapist and being out of work I accepted. Now I know bad bad idea. She wants to know what meds I am on and I told her no, my business. I just cashed is Roth IRA to fund my treatment. It came to a head last night when I was walking out the door and she called, she accused me of not having an infected bee sting but of shooting up who knows what. I asked what she thinks I would shoot up in my upper arm, she just complained she does know because she doesn't know what I am on and I called her a loony and hung up. What do I do from here? I should add that I told her I was shocked she wasn't more understanding having had breast cancer herself and she pulled the " I have been through a lot more than you". I pulled the " yeah it must have been hard, was your mother permissive of a sexual predator living with your two daughters and sleeping with hookers" I am getting the help I need but she is exhausting
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