My dh's grandmother is on hospice care and not expected to make it through the day. He is not close with his grandmother (hasn't even seen her in 12 years) or any of his other family. However he is planning to attend her funeral when she passes. I cannot decide if I should attend the funeral as well. I have completely cut his parents out of my life and I've never met any of his extended family. If I went to the funeral I would only be going to keep my dh company as it will be a 4 hour drive one way. I get anxious and panicky in any situation where I have to be around his parents because of all the problems they have caused us in the past. I also have to protect my 4 year old and 7 week old from being around them. Dh is worried it will create drama if he goes to the funeral but he plans to go anyway out of respect for his grandmother. If I did go to the funeral I wouldn't take my 4 year old but I don't want to separated from my 7 week old for that long. I also thought about accompanying my husband for the drive but hanging out at a mall or something instead of going to the funeral. just wondering if anyone has went through a similar situation?
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