How do I deal with BEC ILs
Hey guys, Longtime lurker, first time poster. I've read the sticky and have my BGPs on but I'm not sure if this is the place to come with this question. If it isn't, I'm very sorry. My ILs are...
View ArticleNeed to deal with a situation MIL created.
First time poster, and I need help handling a situation. I've been married for just two weeks, and already MiL has gone nuts on me. TL;DR version: MiL wrote me a bunch of rude things on facebook...
View ArticleMIL and Halloween anyone else
UPDATED ON PAGE EIGHT! My MIL and I are really close so I respect her a lot she is a Christian and does not agree with Halloween calling it a devils holiday. I am also a Christian but I know the...
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CO MIL contact after 3 years - PTSD? UD Pg 3, 5 DH told FIL
I have tons of BG on here, but the basics are MIL, SIL and GMIL are CO from my kids and I, and although DH doesn't use the word CO, he hasn't spoken to MIL in 3 years, and finally blocked GMIL about a...
View ArticleAdvice on setting boundaries with MIL about upcoming first baby
Hi DWIL, I have been lurking for the past month or so. I have read the Sticky and some of the threads on there like the birth thread and post-partum thread. I am pregnant with our first child and I...
View ArticleSee brother after a decade? UD 18 stolen, 20, 21, 24, 28, 30, ?, 35, 39
Updates: 5,6,8,12,13,16 We are supposed to be visiting my mom this weekend, and she just called to tell me my half brother (hboo) is there. Background: my hboo worked for this guy in high school, and...
View ArticleAsking for money
So this question is really about my MIL, but I'll offer some quick BG. Late last year my BIL was diagnosed with cancer, and since then he's had multiple surgeries as well as chemo. He's young enough to...
View ArticleQuestion about how to deal with the grandmas
New to this group, someone suggested it for my post in another group so here is a copy of my question. Thanks! Background, I have a 6 year old daughter and 3 year old son. They are the only grandkids...
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Is this rude, or is the whole world my BEC?
Ok. Some of this is a little venty but I REALLY need some perspective. I have some major shit going on with my MOO (recently CO), and my FIL. I have BG here that I will try to link in a little bit. I...
View ArticleMy Mom
I am 9 weeks 6 days pregnant. My mom figured it out Saturday. She said that my boobs and skin gave it away. I asked her not to tell anyone because my DH and I were waiting until I was 12 weeks before...
View ArticleSil
I don't know where to start. My Sil is not married yet but will be soon. My parents have a house that they rent out and needed a renter and asked me if I would rent it and agreed. The home is huge it...
View ArticleFirst time poster, I don't know what to do
First post, I've lurked here and there. I am going to try to make this quick because bath time is soon. But I look forward to any advice you have to offer me. MIL was put on a 2 month TO in March due...
View ArticleFuneral... do I go?
My dh's grandmother is on hospice care and not expected to make it through the day. He is not close with his grandmother (hasn't even seen her in 12 years) or any of his other family. However he is...
View ArticleMy clingy in laws
God help me, I never expected I would have to come to this board for advice. I'm Anon here for privacy as my main account is always logged in on our main computer, and DH is IT smart on snooping. I am...
View ArticleMIL - what's your read on these kinds of comments? Am I making a mountain out...
Hi ladies. I'm going anon for this, because I'm sharing this thread with my husband. I would like us to read your responses and come up with a game plan together. Sorry in advance for the length. My...
View ArticleFoo adopting infant
Hi guys, I've been a member and lurker for a long while but got locked out of my account. I really need some advice with this so I've created a new login. It's a long one so I hope you can bear with...
View ArticleI knew it!
I always knew the my MIL didn't care for me, but could never really find any proof. Our computer crashed a few weeks ago, and I can't get to our excel spreadsheet of addresses to send thank you cards...
View ArticleA question for those with co moo or mil
BG: http://community.babycenter.com/post/a63385189/some-worshipful-praise-to-you?cpg=1&scid=Android_MPBT_Referral That link might not work I'll try to fix it later. It's getting close to baby time...
View ArticleWeird Inlaws
Hi. I'm new here and I don't understand most of the abbreviations yet. BACKGROUND Anyway, I've been married for 6 and a half years and we have a 3 year old. My in-laws and I never got along from the...
View ArticleSIL has treated me badly. UD:6,11,13 19,20,24,25,27 text exchange
Basically, a few incidents happened several years ago with my SIL (husband's older sister) and mostly got rugswept. Because of this, I never really liked her and was fine with it, because I didn't have...
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