I'm currently in the hospital and have been for several days. It's pretty serious. I have been ill several times since my daughter's birth and have been in pretty bad shape the last few days so dh has been staying here. My Dd (almost 2) has been staying at my dads. My mom and he are divorced and she is out of state but was here visiting and staying w him. I have a difficult relationship with my mom. She has borderline personality. My dad was at work this morning so Dd was with her. My doctors had just come in to talk to me and dh and dh had just left to go pick her up, spend some time w her. My mom calls, giddy, to tell me they took a bath together. I know she didn't molest her or anything like that. I just hate the situation of them In The tub together. I'm not ok with it at all. Now, my Dd does get in the shower with me if I am home alone with her as I am a lot (sahm), but I feel it's totally different. I am likely in the hospital for another 2 days. I'm now very uncomfortable with the situation at my dad's house and don't want my mom to give her a bath again. My in laws are on a cruise at the moment and my sister lives with my dad as well. I trust her totally but she has a ft job with an hour and a half commute each way and is a ft grad student so she won't be around much. I don't really have any one else near to help. Will be difficult to have the convo of don't do it again with my mom and will likely enrage her. Am I overreacting? Would the situation make you say aw hell no too? Is it me being frustrated that I'm not caring for her?
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