Borderline Personality MIL, kids need plastic surgery 7, DuH ud 17, duh convo 29
Hi everyone, I am brand new (or returned) to BabyCenter. When I was pregnant with DD in 2013 and planning my wedding, I posted to my birth board about MIL and her crazy antics during wedding planning....
View ArticleSon injured on FIL's watch
Long time lurker here, but I rarely post. Today, I rushed my 2 year old son to ER after a head injury. He needed 3 stitches, and was extremely upset/scared. My FIL offered to watch ds this morning at...
View ArticleNarcFIL 84 (trigger) GMIL passed away
Thanks origami for closing the old thread and sorry about the vio! TL;DR of the situation: NarcFIL and MIL wanted to co-parent LO. DH and I set boundaries which were stomped. We drop the rope and make...
View ArticleI'm keeping my DH and her granddaughter away
DH and I have been together for nearly 6 years, married for 3. From the beginning his mom made fun of me for being Catholic and too quiet. That was fine, I was just dating the guy. There was a huge...
View ArticleScreenshots, birthday drama, SIL
Background: my SIL and I both had babies the same week, and so did HER SIL. SO 3 cousins were born in one week. 10/16 hers, 10/19 mine, and 10/21 her SIL. We have never been close, but no big riffs. We...
View Articlebabysitting drama
My husband and I both work full time and we were very uncomfortable at the thought of putting our 8 month old in childcare, so we pay my husband's cousin to come over to the house to watch our...
View ArticleWeekly dinners with in laws. Good or bad?
Hello! After being out of state for four years, we moved back in January of this year. We have two lovely baby girls, our two year old, and our 10 month old. Moving back in January, we chose to live in...
View ArticleBIL always talks down to me
I've had it with my Bil who tries to belittle me every chance he gets. We live 25 minutes from him. He's married, has kids, and is successful. He has a big ego and loves to show off his lifestyle. DH...
View ArticleMy MIL is racist and cursed my baby
I'm Chinese and my baby boy is a mixed baby. I posted something about how my mil texted me crazy stuff long time ago in another website. Anyway, things got way worse since she came to visit.  (I just...
View ArticleNurse mil upd p18
DH and I are expecting our first baby in December. His parents, mil in particular have become like magnets towards me. Mil is a nurse. When I was 16 weeks she cane over with a Doppler so to hear the...
View ArticleDue in 10 days very upset with DH and MIL
This is a strange situation. My last baby was born in 2014 and for some reason after I had him my tolerance for my MIL went down. She and my DH would always hold hands around me and he would have her...
View ArticleI don't want kids near BIL but, that'd forfeit all family gatherings
Dh comes from a large family, most of whom are awesome. 8 siblings, 7 are great with successful jobs and sweet families. But there's one brother that I just don't want around my kids. He's mentally...
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Hijacked baby shower and FMs Update 4...update 8...update 20..final update 25
Morning DWIL I need outside advice. My aunt offered to throw us a sprinkle for our daughter due soon. I'm currently almost 35 weeks pregnant. Because of my health, they want to take her via RCS at 37...
View ArticleWould this bother you???? What would you do?
I'm currently in the hospital and have been for several days. It's pretty serious. I have been ill several times since my daughter's birth and have been in pretty bad shape the last few days so dh has...
View ArticleNarcFIL 85 "let this be a lesson to you" obit shout outs
Thanks origami for closing the old thread and sorry about the vio! TL;DR of the situation: NarcFIL and MIL wanted to co-parent LO. DH and I set boundaries which were stomped. We drop the rope and make...
View ArticleMil doesn't speak to us anymore
In May I had my first baby. Our baby was born the Monday night, and on Tuesday DH messaged everyone letting them know the news and we were open to visitors at thr hospital. Friends and family showed up...
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Vent. Kind of want to c/o my sister.
Just need to vent to someone and right now I can't vent to family and my best friend moved 5 hours away to be with his girlfriend. Background- my younger sister has a drug and alcohol problem- to the...
View ArticleILs & my last name...
I've been lurking a bit, but this is my first post. Not too much background: DH and I have been married for about a year and are expecting our first child this winter. Neither of us changed our names...
View ArticleAm I wrong, or visit a bad idea? UD 3, mini-UD 7
Here's the issue: DH's family (MIL & GMIL) live across the country from us. He wants to fly down and visit this summer because he's "homesick" and hasn't seen them in 3-5 years. I am in the 1st...
View ArticleAm I misenterpreting this text?
My MIL texted this morning about going to our local fair next Sunday, which is something we normally do with ILs and my husbands brothers family yearly. This year, we already have plans for that day,...
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