Hi all, I have a history of BSC MIL but my MOO, in general, has been very respectful of boundaries and parenting decisions etc as she is our main caregiver for our DD when we both need to work (1 day a week usually, DH and I own a business and sometimes need to both cover sick staff shifts etc).
DD is 13 weeks old and our 2 rules for EVERYONE is that there is NO KISSING of DD and also that no pictures be shared on social media without our say so, we are the only ones to post photos, but everyone is welcome to 'share' them after we have posted them. These rules have been stuck to by everyone, even BSC in laws...or so I thought...
MOO is always taking photos of DD when she has her and sending them to us throughout the day with little updates. We love it and there's never been any problems as she never posted them publicly...only messaged them to DH and I.
This morning, I was browsing the debil and noticed an instagram icon to connect with friends. I clicked it and it took me to my instagram app, and opened up the list of my friend on debil's accounts. I was searching through them and came across one titled 'DD's Nan' (MOO is called 'Nan'). I clicked it and it's a SHRINE to my daughter. Literally so many photos. Hundreds of them. All from birth to her now 12 weeks old. Some of these photos I haven't even seen. They all have lots of comments and likes. She has hundreds of followers seeing these photos. I feel sick.
It is now 2 hours later and I am shaking with anger. What should my next move be? TO? I've never had any issues to TO or tell her off before...but this is insane.