First of, I'm a lurker under anonymity. I don't wish to see family and friends learn of my post.
My FIL passed recently. He and my MIL lived with us. Since his passing, she's been lonely. It's expected.
DH and his siblings wished for everyone to get away so to clear their minds. His siblings went and came back. DH booked for me and the kids to go in mid October. We asked MIL where she wanted to go. She wanted to go at friends. Then changed her plans. She wants to go with us. DH told her she should go visit her other family. She doesn't.
We don't want her too dependent on us.
I told DH she'd get dependent if we take her with us.
Am I being wrong?
My FIL passed recently. He and my MIL lived with us. Since his passing, she's been lonely. It's expected.
DH and his siblings wished for everyone to get away so to clear their minds. His siblings went and came back. DH booked for me and the kids to go in mid October. We asked MIL where she wanted to go. She wanted to go at friends. Then changed her plans. She wants to go with us. DH told her she should go visit her other family. She doesn't.
We don't want her too dependent on us.
I told DH she'd get dependent if we take her with us.
Am I being wrong?