She didn't understand no, now she doesn't understand what TO means
I posted about my mom on here before when she kept saying she wanted to keep my baby for a week six hours away from me and laughed at my separation anxiety. Well she's been in TO since then and so far...
View ArticleMIL being lonely
First of, I'm a lurker under anonymity. I don't wish to see family and friends learn of my post. My FIL passed recently. He and my MIL lived with us. Since his passing, she's been lonely. It's...
View ArticleCodependent MOO "I'm not codependent- my mom said so!" UD pg 2, 5, 6, 8, xmas...
So I've posted about my mom before. The old post wasn't directly about the way she's treated me but its relevant info anyways and can be found here: Â http://community.babycenter.com/post/a57759877/...
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FOO taking "being busy" personally
Wise DWILers, I need some assistance with a minor problem. I have some background on here relating to my Sister, but this is all about my Dad and what an entitled asshat he is. I have a 4 year old DD...
View ArticleHow to shut down health suggestions?*ud pg 5*
My MIL is a boundary stomper and enabler to her husband. Whatever he says, in her mind, is correct, and we should all follow. In July, I had a tramautic birth. It caused a lot of issues with bonding. I...
View ArticleUnexpected FM attack. UD pg 4, 5, 10, 11, 12,13, 14, 15, 16, 18, 20, 21
So, I'm dee-runk. Not my normal state, but it's New Years and we're having a party and it's all good. At 11:30, I got a call from my niece (D from previous posts.) She's at a wedding, but wants to wish...
View ArticleFinally put mil in her place
So my mother in law likes everything the way she wants it and that's it. She got mad when I told her we will not be telling anyone when I'm going into labor. We will announce it once he's here. For...
View ArticleMoving back to hometown- dreading MIL-is premptive planning possible?
hi, first time posting. Apologies in advance if I do something incorrectly. MIL and I have a long history of boundary issues. Ie. My setting them, her not caring. I had to uninvite her from my bridal...
View ArticleWas told to post this here for advice on over-stepping MIL?
So, my mother-in-law has REALLY stepped over the line. First of all, she keeps referring to this baby as hers and her sons, which makes me feel like I'm just a serogate for her! And she keeps offereing...
View ArticleLiving with IL, worried about life with baby
DH and I are currently living with his parents (and his younger sisters) until we find a place of our own since we just moved back to his hometown. Our son is due this month. I love my MIL and...
View ArticleMIL boundaries
Okay so DH or DuH and I have started the whole boundaries thing with MIL. I have talked to DH and made him see how he gives our DD up to keep his mom happy. I told him that I do not care for the...
View ArticleMIL snide comments
I had my LB 7 weeks ago and I understand my MIL is excited to do everything with/for him but she is trying to impose he 27 year old parenting skills on me. My LO has really bad reflux so BF all the...
View ArticleMy mom chose her religion
Little background.... i was raised as a jehovahs witness and got baptized when I was 17. Fast forward im 26 now and living on my own.... i no longer have a desire to be associated. I haven't attended...
View ArticleMom needs boundaries ud p 5, 9,12. I did it p 16. Help p 21.FREAKING OUT p30,...
A little background.... My mom and I have a difficult past of her berating, belittling, and smacking me around in my teens. We have a "normal" relationship now for the most part. She has made a lot of...
View ArticleMy BIL is an evil troll.. He called me pg 3
I hate my BIL. He is an all around asshole, but he treats my SO like trash (they are brothers--BIL for simplicity sake). The final straw was on my SO's birthday, BIL ended up wasted, and my SO drove...
View ArticleAdvice on how to deal with mom *LONG and triggers* 3,8,9,11,12, update 13/14...
Hey ladies, I'm a lurker but never posted until now. I know this is supposed to be in laws, but I'm hoping this is ok. I do have to give some BG for this to make sense and I will try to make this as...
View ArticleMIL gave my baby YOGURT Pg.49
She gave her strawberry today and yesterday she gave her banana! Wth????? I told her multiple times no no no but she doesn't listen all she has to say is "it's good for her!" And "it's only yogurt!"...
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First Post. MIL Advice Needed. UPDATE.
So some BG to start with: DF was married once before. His mother and his ex have always been good friends. After the separation, they became even closer. When I came into the picture, MIL was saying...
View ArticleDrop everything MIL is here...
So this is my second post I'm more of a lurker but I need some advice. Well my DF & I have been together for 2 years now and we have two sons together. Well his family is very enmeshed and feel...
View ArticleDWIL has me rethinking... Q pg 2, UD pg 6,7 BG pg 8 UD pg 11, 15, 20 another...
About the boundaries with my MOO. I don't know who my bio dad is, so I feel I gotta put up with more since I only have my moms side of the family. First off, my gramma and I are super close. She is...
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