Please tell me I'm not wrong question pg3 ud pg 5 ud pg 8
So some BG: I have had some minor issues with my MIL for most of the almost 11 years I've been with my DH. FIL was always ok but like many of the enabling husbands on this board he got nasty when I...
View ArticleAgoraphobic and DH want's MIL stay for a week. UD pg 7
This is going to be long but not so sure it will be full of noms like the other posts... Long time lurker but never posted for myself. I've read the sticky and I know you ladies will give it to me...
View ArticleMom lost her marbles
Anon for privacy. Relevant BG: DH, DS, and I relocated across country 1.5 years ago to be near my family. Once we arrived we rented a place until we found a house we wanted to buy. DH got a job right...
View ArticleI gave an inch she's trying to take a mile or is she manipulating us?...
Lurker for about 6 months, read sticky - hope I do this right because really respect this community and all the members who provide such wisdom and good advice. MIL goes between BSC and BEC in my...
View ArticlePlease Help- it's happening tomorrow!! Update: 19, 28!!!, 34, update 40
Gone Anon. I am a FTM and deliver tomorrow. Well, being induced. Me and Hubby just celebrated our 1 year anniversary and have been together 8 years. He is amazing. When we discussed my birthing plan,...
View ArticleTemp custody of DN
So my sister just lost custody of my nephew. Apparently her house wasn't up to standard (cleanliness wise) for at least the 4 time and DN was removed from her home. He's 3. I got a call at work from...
View ArticleMY NEWBORN IS NOT A TOY NOR A FOOTBALL *rant*
Sorry I am on a rampage due to no sleep and DD had her first bath because the poor thing pooped and peed all over me and herself while being change and she was so terrified I swear she thought I was...
View ArticleFOO taking "being busy" personally
Wise DWILers, I need some assistance with a minor problem. I have some background on here relating to my Sister, but this is all about my Dad and what an entitled asshat he is. I have a 4 year old DD...
View ArticleOffering to help babysit then acts put off by it. What is this?
A grandmother who says she will watch the kids and help if we need her to (also loves to play GOTY). We give plenty of notice (ZERO obligation for her to help is very much implied), but then she acts...
View ArticleWhat is wrong with this woman? UPDATE PG 5, 7, 10
I am 8 and a half months pregnant with a little boy and i have a 14 month old DD. My mother decided to plan a trip to AZ out of nowhere for the end of October, early November, for three weeks and she...
View ArticleMoney guilting MOO *updates* 9; texts 10, 11; TO text sent 13; reply 14; 16
Hey so, my mom often uses money as a manipulation tactic. She'll drop comments about how much she spent and how it put her out so much, and boo hoo she lent this person money and they still haven't...
View Articleneed help update pg. 34...Bigfoot (sister) and bil.,(update pg12)pg14 pg21...
I keep wanting to post here, but just dont have the patience or the "want". I usually end up way too lazy to type out my whole story. I guess basically what i am here for is advice, opinions, and tough...
View ArticleMIL changed my flowers on my wedding day. UPD 27, 30, 32
Lurker for a while, using a different account. Have gotten a lot of useful tips thus far but DH and I are looking for help on a TO intervention. Sorry for length but it's worth it. BG: MIL and FIL...
View ArticleMoney guilting MOO 9; 10, 11; 13; 14; 16; 18; 19
Hey so, my mom often uses money as a manipulation tactic. She'll drop comments about how much she spent and how it put her out so much, and boo hoo she lent this person money and they still haven't...
View ArticleXMIL wants DD at her wedding
Alright up until now I've been a lurker but this situation is beginning to stress me out so I'd like you ladies (and gentlemens) opinion/ help. My XMIL's wedding is Oct 17th and she would like my DD,...
View ArticleHelp me with MIL please... Long
Ok I'm finally posting to ask you amazing ladies for much needed help! I am a FTM with a 7 week old DD. DF and I live downstairs and my in laws live upstairs. Now this was an amazing arrangement with...
View ArticleNo idea how to handle this...Brother and SIL
Hi everyone! I could really use some advice on how to handle a very delicate situation. I will be 39 weeks pregnant tomorrow with a little girl. My brother and his wife are adopting her. Yesterday,...
View ArticleI just can't even-MIL dinner 27, new email 31, guilt text 35
About once a year, my MIL just pulls something to make me remember why I don't like or trust her. This time, I had a late meeting after school, and I warned my kids (old enough to be home without me...
View ArticleMIL - training her but worried about her undermining our parenting - updated...
BG: Like a lot of people on here, my MIL was ok until my DD was born. Now she makes me craaaazy. I'd lIke to keep some semblance of a relationship with her, so my DD can have some extended family (I...
View ArticleMIL revealed herself
First, I want to start off explaining that both my partner and I are pregnant, and we are due together in August. So, the pregnancies have been going pretty well, and up until the baby shower in June...
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