FM's be crazy! UD: GPR??? UD: triggery UD: Phone Call UD: Non-UD
I just don't understand people. My brief BG: mom and I were very close (only child / single parent) and had a great relationship until 3 years ago. She's always had anxiety / depression that was well...
View ArticleTemp custody of DN
So my sister just lost custody of my nephew. Apparently her house wasn't up to standard (cleanliness wise) for at least the 4 time and DN was removed from her home. He's 3. I got a call at work from...
View ArticleNarc Mom Need Advice
I am a long time lurker first time poster. I really need some advice about how to help my husband see that we need to go NC. I've tried talking and reasoning with him, but he's not understanding where...
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Bike Thief FIL; Package of Rugsweeping p6
If I disliked and mistrusted my ILs before, after yesterday I officially despise them and want nothing more to do with them. BG: FIL is a controlling narc misogynist. He gets off on power. MIL is a...
View ArticleSIL doesn't like ME babysitting her kids
Please tellme if I'm wrong. SIL (DH's sister) has two kids. We have four, 12, 10, 5 and 2. Her kids are 6 and 8 months. She's a single mom and works. When Friday comes, she like to party. Saturday,...
View ArticleI am acting entitled right? 6, 7, 9, 11, 15, More FB messages 17
I am acting entitled right? My Brother had hernia surgery today and my parents are on their way down to Bro's house to help out for up to 2 weeks because he had surgery, has a 4 yr old, a dog and his...
View ArticlePossible trigger, need advice, so sorry this is so long
New to BBC and this group, but not new to dealing with difficult family...my FOO has been plenty difficult over the years, however this is about my MIL. A small bit of back ground...MIL "loved" me...
View ArticleSO and family want name to follow their family tradition!
First time posting here, but I was told I'd get some good advice! My SO and I have been together on and off for like 3yrs. During an off period, we were both seeing other people. I just so happened to...
View ArticleFIL took my child on a tractor…
It is with some trepidation that I post here again... but here goes. Relevant BG: MIL and FIL have a horrible relationship. I honestly don't know why they're still married.. but it's partially b/c...
View ArticleWhat zodiac is your problem IL/FOO ?
Nothing against any particular zodiac sign, just curious to see if there's a pattern. I had issues with my MIL and she's a Scorpio.
View ArticleQuick Question | Update pg 9 | Text Help & BG pg 11
I'm a little late in asking this since I just sent the response to my MIL but I figured I'd ask anyway. 1. My MIL really dislikes her MIL. I like them both but they compete with each other and forget...
View ArticleMoney guilting MOO *updates* 9; texts 10, 11; TO text sent 13; reply 14; 16
Hey so, my mom often uses money as a manipulation tactic. She'll drop comments about how much she spent and how it put her out so much, and boo hoo she lent this person money and they still haven't...
View ArticleOkay DWILers I need your opinion
Most background is my awful Mil and DuH but this post is actually about my MOO. This is where I need your opinion. My mother has been asking for pictures of my ds. As in I text them to her because she...
View ArticleWas I wrong? She bought plane tickets without telling me: Mom's quick...
Hi everyone, I've been a BBC member and a lurker here for a few years, but I'm going anon for this. Thanks to this board I've been able to pinpoint some of the problems DH and I have with our families....
View ArticleWhen "that doesn't work for us" is a non sequitur
I have some background on my MFOO (mom's family of origin), but I'm mobile. Anyhow, it gives bg as to WHY I don't want to do stuff with this side of my family but is not super relevant to the question....
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MIL wanting to volunteer at daughters school
First off, I have been reading on this board for a few years and respect your opinions and advice. I will give you some quick BG information on my relationship with my mil. Mil is a meddling, know it...
View ArticlePlease Help- it's happening tomorrow!! Update: 19, 28!!! She tried again! 34
Gone Anon. I am a FTM and deliver tomorrow. Well, being induced. Me and Hubby just celebrated our 1 year anniversary and have been together 8 years. He is amazing. When we discussed my birthing plan,...
View ArticleI Unloaded A LOT On My Mom Today...and feel guilty
First, an update on my situation: As many of you know, my mom is staying with us right now. It has not gone any worse than I thought because I prepared myself for the worst. In many ways it has been...
View ArticleWhat is wrong with this woman? UPDATE PG 5,7
I am 8 and a half months pregnant with a little boy and i have a 14 month old DD. My mother decided to plan a trip to AZ out of nowhere for the end of October, early November, for three weeks and she...
View ArticleI just can't even-MIL dinner 27, new email 31, guilt text 35
About once a year, my MIL just pulls something to make me remember why I don't like or trust her. This time, I had a late meeting after school, and I warned my kids (old enough to be home without me...
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