Please tellme if I'm wrong.
SIL (DH's sister) has two kids. We have four, 12, 10, 5 and 2. Her kids are 6 and 8 months. She's a single mom and works. When Friday comes, she like to party. Saturday, party. Sunday she's sleeping off.
When she calls us to babysit, DH MUST be home. If he's not going to be home with me when she wants us to babysit, she asks other people. Picking up on her actions, I asked DH if he saw the trend of how she never allows us to babysit if he's not going to be here. He said not really. I told him she doesn't want me to babysit her kids even though I have four kids.
Two weekends ago, she called for help to babysit her kids. DH was not going to be here. She said don't bother. Another night, he was home and she brought her kids over. She was picking them up at 11pm. DH got called into work that night. She dropped ger kids off at 5, was going out for 8. Called us at 9 to ask for DH, she just said it was check in. DH got called in at 9:30. She called at 10 and asked for DH. I told her he was at work. She got on crazy. She told me shes on her way asap for her kids. She got her like the flash.
I told her she's crazy and if she doesn't want me watching her kids alone to say it instead of being a crazy person.
Whenever DH and I go out, we get a sitter or MIL. Most times, a sitter. I came to find that when MIL is watching my kids, SIL is over at the house and playing with my kids, taking photos with them, and giving them junk. One of our kids got sick over a snack and when we got home, SIL was not there. MIL never said she was there before. I came to find out she was when I was at a cousins house and we were reading a status off of the cousins account, and after clicking new stories, saw the album SIL uploaded of my kids, and then she made a post about the snack which got my kid sick.
I got angry at MIL and SIL. MIL told me SIL was not a problem, and I was causing havoc.
Am I wrong?
SIL (DH's sister) has two kids. We have four, 12, 10, 5 and 2. Her kids are 6 and 8 months. She's a single mom and works. When Friday comes, she like to party. Saturday, party. Sunday she's sleeping off.
When she calls us to babysit, DH MUST be home. If he's not going to be home with me when she wants us to babysit, she asks other people. Picking up on her actions, I asked DH if he saw the trend of how she never allows us to babysit if he's not going to be here. He said not really. I told him she doesn't want me to babysit her kids even though I have four kids.
Two weekends ago, she called for help to babysit her kids. DH was not going to be here. She said don't bother. Another night, he was home and she brought her kids over. She was picking them up at 11pm. DH got called into work that night. She dropped ger kids off at 5, was going out for 8. Called us at 9 to ask for DH, she just said it was check in. DH got called in at 9:30. She called at 10 and asked for DH. I told her he was at work. She got on crazy. She told me shes on her way asap for her kids. She got her like the flash.
I told her she's crazy and if she doesn't want me watching her kids alone to say it instead of being a crazy person.
Whenever DH and I go out, we get a sitter or MIL. Most times, a sitter. I came to find that when MIL is watching my kids, SIL is over at the house and playing with my kids, taking photos with them, and giving them junk. One of our kids got sick over a snack and when we got home, SIL was not there. MIL never said she was there before. I came to find out she was when I was at a cousins house and we were reading a status off of the cousins account, and after clicking new stories, saw the album SIL uploaded of my kids, and then she made a post about the snack which got my kid sick.
I got angry at MIL and SIL. MIL told me SIL was not a problem, and I was causing havoc.
Am I wrong?