Link to BG:
http://community.babycenter.com/post/a58399501/cant_believe_he_bought_her_pathetic_excuse_apology
After all that jazz dh and I went back to counseling and we had an agreement for a 6+ month TO for both MiL and FiL with DS and I.
Well, today, I went out for a day with my SSIL?( DHs, brothers wife) left DS with DH, he told me to go out and have a good day and relax. Well he just texted me and said that I need to hurry home cause he wants to go see his parents and if I'm not back by the time DS wakes from his nap he's gonna take him with. I asked him if he could just go tomorrow, and he said no, he wants to go today because he hasn't seen them in forever. HE JUST SAW THEM ON THE 9th or 10th. I am fucking baffled. Will this man ever fucking understand that his parents should NEVER fucking see our kid? Like wtf does it take for you to get it guy? I'm lost. I feel like he's never gonna come around and see things from my perspective no matter how much counseling we have. Advice? Besides divorce? TIA.
http://community.babycenter.com/post/a58399501/cant_believe_he_bought_her_pathetic_excuse_apology
After all that jazz dh and I went back to counseling and we had an agreement for a 6+ month TO for both MiL and FiL with DS and I.
Well, today, I went out for a day with my SSIL?( DHs, brothers wife) left DS with DH, he told me to go out and have a good day and relax. Well he just texted me and said that I need to hurry home cause he wants to go see his parents and if I'm not back by the time DS wakes from his nap he's gonna take him with. I asked him if he could just go tomorrow, and he said no, he wants to go today because he hasn't seen them in forever. HE JUST SAW THEM ON THE 9th or 10th. I am fucking baffled. Will this man ever fucking understand that his parents should NEVER fucking see our kid? Like wtf does it take for you to get it guy? I'm lost. I feel like he's never gonna come around and see things from my perspective no matter how much counseling we have. Advice? Besides divorce? TIA.