I have a 16 month old daughter and live at my moms home. Currently working, going to school and saving money. My grandmother lives next door and she takes care of my daughter while I'm at work and my mother and siblings help me out and take care of her while I'm at school. Basically my entire support system is in my home. My daughters father, my boyfriend is in our lives and he and I are in a relationship.
Here's where I need help. He lives about an hour away and thinks that every weekend my daughter and I should go to his moms house (where he lives). I have to stop any weekend plans because we have to go to his mothers house. Let me clear she is not very respectful towards me. In the past she has said really mean things to me, disregards anything and everything I say when it comes to my daughter and basically wants to take over as my daughters mother. Might I also add she has a problem with her memory. The family has failed to take action on the condition but there's is something wrong and she forgets a lot of things. My problem is that every weekend when we go to my bf house our plans have to be around his neighborhood and always with his sister and her three kids. I'm trying To compromise as best I can and only go every other Saturday during the day. I feel like it's reasonable but my boyfriend immediately starts a fight with me and won't come to my house. This is just the gist of the problems as there are a lot of other detail. I just honestly needs some advice. Anything would be helpful as I'm really at a crossroads here.
Here's where I need help. He lives about an hour away and thinks that every weekend my daughter and I should go to his moms house (where he lives). I have to stop any weekend plans because we have to go to his mothers house. Let me clear she is not very respectful towards me. In the past she has said really mean things to me, disregards anything and everything I say when it comes to my daughter and basically wants to take over as my daughters mother. Might I also add she has a problem with her memory. The family has failed to take action on the condition but there's is something wrong and she forgets a lot of things. My problem is that every weekend when we go to my bf house our plans have to be around his neighborhood and always with his sister and her three kids. I'm trying To compromise as best I can and only go every other Saturday during the day. I feel like it's reasonable but my boyfriend immediately starts a fight with me and won't come to my house. This is just the gist of the problems as there are a lot of other detail. I just honestly needs some advice. Anything would be helpful as I'm really at a crossroads here.