I'm pregnant and getting induced next week.
I'm really excited for ds to meet this baby. He is going to be 22 months. So I'm not sure how he's going to react..he might not even care. But I wanted him to be brought to the hospital by my mom after so that it's just me and my husband and the new baby when they first meet (with my mom on the side. But she would take pictures..Also I had already planned for ds to stay at my friends house until my mom or dh could get him)
My mil works and since I'm getting induced and my last labor was pretty quick so I should be done laboring by the time she gets off. But she decided to take the day off so she can watch ds and so she can immediately come visit once I'm done.
Long story short I had so many visitors when my first was born..and I just remember being really overwhelmed. So I wanted to wait a couple hours to have visitors so I can bond..but I don't want everyone to be upset and I'm trying not to cause unnecessary drama...but I feel like it's important.. Am I just hormonal for not wanting mil to immediately come and for wanting ds meeting his baby brother to be a small family event?
I'm really excited for ds to meet this baby. He is going to be 22 months. So I'm not sure how he's going to react..he might not even care. But I wanted him to be brought to the hospital by my mom after so that it's just me and my husband and the new baby when they first meet (with my mom on the side. But she would take pictures..Also I had already planned for ds to stay at my friends house until my mom or dh could get him)
My mil works and since I'm getting induced and my last labor was pretty quick so I should be done laboring by the time she gets off. But she decided to take the day off so she can watch ds and so she can immediately come visit once I'm done.
Long story short I had so many visitors when my first was born..and I just remember being really overwhelmed. So I wanted to wait a couple hours to have visitors so I can bond..but I don't want everyone to be upset and I'm trying not to cause unnecessary drama...but I feel like it's important.. Am I just hormonal for not wanting mil to immediately come and for wanting ds meeting his baby brother to be a small family event?