BEC MIL
I know y'all will notice my fancy new anon account, but I decided to go away from my lurker status and create an account I do not need to worry about being traced back to me. Here we go! My MIL is my...
View ArticleNot wanting to cause drama..advice needed!
I'm pregnant and getting induced next week. I'm really excited for ds to meet this baby. He is going to be 22 months. So I'm not sure how he's going to react..he might not even care. But I wanted him...
View ArticleHow to tell them not to come
After reading about this board on a thread in my May 2016 birth club, I've decided to post this here... My dilemma has literally sent me into a panic attack. My husbands family. Ugh. My two sister in...
View ArticleNarc moo validating therapist
Not new here, some background about my mom when I first realized she was a narc. Anyway, I'm writing because since the birth of my od 2013 when my moo came to visit from abroad, my sisters and I...
View ArticleMIL and boundaries.
To start off, I like my MIL. She's a great lady. We've had our moments, but in general things are good. I'm having a baby in the next month or so and she's coming to help. Yes, she will help. She will...
View ArticleTracing an account
I keep seeing people go anonymous to post so their account can't be traced. I have googled my name, email I used to register, etc and found nothing that linked back to BBC. How else could someone trace...
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Need advice for dealing with controlling mother - Updates p. 12, 13, 14,...
***UPDATE*** Thank you to everyone for your amazing, informative advice. This is where everything stands right now: 1) DH and I talked and agreed that we definitely need a TO from my mom. We have not...
View ArticleThe "One Visit Per Week" IL Rule. Aka, I Must Hate ILs --UD 40, Letter?42
UD 7, 11; ?-11, 15; 16; ?+ Fail 22; UD24, SS 25, 30, 31, 35, ?-37 Studious lurker since i got pregnant and found BBC last August or so. Went anon cuz my username is really identifiable. The advice for...
View ArticleHoliday food-am I being a bad sister?
DH and I often host Thanksgiving, Christmas or both at our place. We trade off so it is his family for Thanksgiving and mine for Christmas one year and opposite the next. I like hosting so that is not...
View ArticleAm I overracting to my BEC MIL? Tell me please if I am. Update pg. 6, MIL...
So, I've posted here before about little things but I have never really known how to handle my MIL completely. There have been things that she has done that has rubbed me the wrong way. Maybe I should...
View ArticleBaby Grabbing Soccer Mom?
Hi all I hope you don't mind a non in-law question. I thought you could help since the issue is similar to one we see with in-laws. If it's not appropriate, I will delete. I need help shutting down...
View ArticleThere Really Must Be a Handbook.
BG: DH and I have been married 8 years and have a 10 month old DD. MIL and I had a great relationship (or so I thought) until I got pregnant. Since then: She thought it was funny to call me "fatty"...
View ArticleVery guilty from pulling away from my mother***trigger***
This will be long Bg on mother-she grew up being molested by her dad, her mom didn't believe her. Grew up very poor. Left home at 16. Got married at 18 had me, he was a drug dealer and abusive. He...
View ArticleLimiting Christmas Gifts
I get along with my ILs fairly well and given that interactions are spread out I actually do enjoy spending time with them. The one issue (ok - maybe there's more than one : ) is my MILs gift giving....
View ArticleBig Conflict over a Wedding Dress pg. 9 and 16
FMIL has been spamming my email inbox full wedding dress options. Whenever I'm around her she always bring up what I'm wearing for the wedding. She even brought me a wedding dress, and tried to give me...
View ArticleMischief Managed (Well, I'm getting there...)
This is a continuation of my last thread because glitchy. Background: http://community.babycenter.com/post/a50697532/its_starting_8_11_13_1417_26_38_45_58_59_61_65_67_70_71_80_101_help?cpg=204 No...
View Articlemil just told my co moo my due date
Please excuse grammar and lack of flow I'm seeing red right now. (And honestly I suck at grammar anyways :'( ) so short story: my moo is co 2 years now. (I have bg on here with the whys). Mil knows...
View ArticleMoney guilting MOO 9; 10, 11; 13; 14; 16; 18; 19; 20/21; 22; 25; 26; 28
Hey so, my mom often uses money as a manipulation tactic. She'll drop comments about how much she spent and how it put her out so much, and boo hoo she lent this person money and they still haven't...
View ArticleFOO Vacation Disaster, UD TRIGGER 6, 10, VM 20, noms 21
I have had an account on here that was regarding my ILs, but it was an old email and an old password, and I have a one, two, and three year old and that part of my brain is fried. Sorry. This is really...
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Here I am again- advice needed
I have posted about both my family and in-laws. This time it's in-laws again. For the longest time, the past year or so, they had finally started listening to the "call and ask before you come over"...
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