We recently initiated a CO from my husband's aunt (MIL's sister) and her husband. Their sins are many. Creepy uncle insists on introducing me as "This is my nephew's hot wife, OP" and the only time we visited them (they live out of state) he waited for DH to go to the bathroom then asked if we had had sex yet on the trip. I gave a raised eyebrow, and literally said, "that's really fucking creepy, and none of your business." his response, "I'm just saying, if you were my girlfriend, I'd have your ankles behind your ears all weekend."
AIL is documented psycho- the BSC is strong with this one. I'll add BG as a comment.
DH has largely been a DuH when it comes to the two of them. He's down to 25% DuH and has had a major unicorn even as we did the CO. AIL made it easy by basically saying, "fine, fuck you." UIL has been harassing us nonstop. His number is blocked on my phone, but he's called and texted DH nonstop, and from DH's side we can see that he's included my number in most of the messages.
We gave the CO in writing and stated that we will not entertain further contact.
Since then, UIL has been persisting. This is his most recent text to DH.
"I don't deserve this disrespect. I've treated you and OP with nothing but respect. You both need to reconsider this decision and know that I do not respect it nor will I abide by it. I will continue to work to repair/rebuild the damage. I will not abandon our relationship nor our responsibility towards our mutual family. Meet me halfway is all I ask. To shun your family over something as petty and foolish as a FB setting is is nuts, DH, think about it, you know I'm right."
To clarify, this CO is not about the debil, it's about 5 years of abusive and manipulative behavior.
Now. UIL has just called my office, as of 5 minutes ago, I'm shaking as I type this, I'm so furious I can't even handle it. I'm also pregnant, high risk, and as of yesterday have started anxiety medication because I'm having frequent panic attacks. (not necessarily triggered by them, just generalized anxiety, but I'm new to dealing with it as it is not an issue I've had prior.)
I'm ready to go nuclear and report him for harassment. He has stated in writing that he will not respect our request for no contact. In the meantime, do we BH? I want DH to call and rip him a new asshole, but I also don't want him to learn that calling my office will get a response.
What in the ever loving fuck am I supposed to do with this?