A couple days ago I had my cousins grad party to go to. My son ended up getting sick with a fever and a cough. I told my mom I didn't think I would be able to go and she pretty much was quiet and said she was very disappointed. So I decided I would leave my son with DH while I stopped in at the grad party. JUST TO MAKE HER HAPPY. I stopped at her house first because my sister (she still lives with my parents) and I planned to drive together. My DH started texting me right away saying LO was not doing good and we should take him to urgent care. I told my mom and I saw the red in her eyes she told me "go then!" In this nasty tone so I said "I don't need a guilt trip right now" and she said "oh so this is my fault !?" And I said "this isn't about you it's about my sick child and he needs me. I am going home" so she ran into her room yelling "good! Leave!"
The next day she messaged me saying how disprectful I was and she didn't like my tone. And it's all my fault. I ignored her. Didn't write her back. I was pissed. So she went on saying "why are you ignoring me" "something is very wrong" "I am your mother you can't treat me this way"
I finally wrote her back saying "I am still upset about yesterday." " I can't talk about it right now I busy" which I was. I had to go help DH in the garage so I left my phone inside.
She then proceeded to call me about 20 times which I actually didn't receive because I was outside at the time and did not have my phone on me. She texted me like crazy saying how sick she was over this.
So I called her back and she is literally screaming at the top of her lungs and crying "how can you do this to me!!!! I am so sick over this! You can't ignore me!"
I told her to calm down or I wasn't going to talk to her. She didn't. So o hung up on her. I could barely understand her. She was completely losing control. Over what? She told my ass to leave yesterday and she was pissed because I couldn't go to the grad party. She wanted ME to apoligiZe.
I told her I was not sorry. And I felt I did nothing wrong. Maybe I am a little bitter too about her because she talks so much crap about me and DH behind our backs. It's so bad. I don't even know who she is anymore.
She pulled this same thing on Easter. We wanted to have a nice little quiet Easter at our house with just us. MIL stopped by for a second and helped LO find eggs in the front yard and posted pics on the debil. Mom saw of course and threw the biggest tantrum. Ugh.
There's so much BG with her it's unreal. I just don't know what to do. I feel like giving her a TO but I'm not sure how to go about it. Am I being insensitive ?
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The next day she messaged me saying how disprectful I was and she didn't like my tone. And it's all my fault. I ignored her. Didn't write her back. I was pissed. So she went on saying "why are you ignoring me" "something is very wrong" "I am your mother you can't treat me this way"
I finally wrote her back saying "I am still upset about yesterday." " I can't talk about it right now I busy" which I was. I had to go help DH in the garage so I left my phone inside.
She then proceeded to call me about 20 times which I actually didn't receive because I was outside at the time and did not have my phone on me. She texted me like crazy saying how sick she was over this.
So I called her back and she is literally screaming at the top of her lungs and crying "how can you do this to me!!!! I am so sick over this! You can't ignore me!"
I told her to calm down or I wasn't going to talk to her. She didn't. So o hung up on her. I could barely understand her. She was completely losing control. Over what? She told my ass to leave yesterday and she was pissed because I couldn't go to the grad party. She wanted ME to apoligiZe.
I told her I was not sorry. And I felt I did nothing wrong. Maybe I am a little bitter too about her because she talks so much crap about me and DH behind our backs. It's so bad. I don't even know who she is anymore.
She pulled this same thing on Easter. We wanted to have a nice little quiet Easter at our house with just us. MIL stopped by for a second and helped LO find eggs in the front yard and posted pics on the debil. Mom saw of course and threw the biggest tantrum. Ugh.
There's so much BG with her it's unreal. I just don't know what to do. I feel like giving her a TO but I'm not sure how to go about it. Am I being insensitive ?
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