I know someone will write a comment based on BG from my previous post on the step parents board but for those who take each post at face value I'll provide some BG.
I'm step mother to a wonder little girl. BM is not so wonderful. While dating my now husband she made things hell for me. Said she doesn't want me around SD doesn't want me to buy her anything - even until this day if I send treats home with sd it isn't mentioned their from me. She excluded me from events and yet other in laws would invite her to family functions in where she would come.
It was recently my step daughters birthday. DHs phone was still not working and taking pictures with a weird streak on them. I took all the photos of sd on that day. With her cake, with DH and so on. I on my own sent some of the pictures to sil and then dh mentioned hey can you send all of them to my sister for me. I said sure even the outtakes? And he said yes just send her everything.
I sent sil the pics and she thanked me for sharing them. I was proud to show of as on her day. My DH logs into fb and I see that sds older brother tagged one of dh friend in some pics of sd on hee birthday. Pics with her cake and others which obviously could and would only possibly come from my phone.
I texted sil and said to her why would she send the pics to bm. I never expected that while sending them to her she would even do so knowing the history me and bm have and how she excluded me from everything.
Sil said she didn't mean anything by it just wanted to show bm sds photos on her birthday. (It was Sunday sd doesn't stay over night and went home around 6)
I replied to sil yes but me and bm don't even speak I didn't expect this from you I don't want anything from me shared with her just like she treats me and I took those photos on behalf of dh not for her she can take her own photos
Sil said I know you and bm don't talk and I don't wanna start drama so if I hurt you by doing it I apologize
I sat down and I thought about it and I kept saying to myself if two people don't talk I wouldn't even do something like that. Was she so desperately trying to get in good graces with bm and be so friendly that she ran and sent all the photos I sent to her to her.
Few days later and we are not talking. There are even some fb status going up back and forth.
how would you feel? Could I be wrong?
I'm step mother to a wonder little girl. BM is not so wonderful. While dating my now husband she made things hell for me. Said she doesn't want me around SD doesn't want me to buy her anything - even until this day if I send treats home with sd it isn't mentioned their from me. She excluded me from events and yet other in laws would invite her to family functions in where she would come.
It was recently my step daughters birthday. DHs phone was still not working and taking pictures with a weird streak on them. I took all the photos of sd on that day. With her cake, with DH and so on. I on my own sent some of the pictures to sil and then dh mentioned hey can you send all of them to my sister for me. I said sure even the outtakes? And he said yes just send her everything.
I sent sil the pics and she thanked me for sharing them. I was proud to show of as on her day. My DH logs into fb and I see that sds older brother tagged one of dh friend in some pics of sd on hee birthday. Pics with her cake and others which obviously could and would only possibly come from my phone.
I texted sil and said to her why would she send the pics to bm. I never expected that while sending them to her she would even do so knowing the history me and bm have and how she excluded me from everything.
Sil said she didn't mean anything by it just wanted to show bm sds photos on her birthday. (It was Sunday sd doesn't stay over night and went home around 6)
I replied to sil yes but me and bm don't even speak I didn't expect this from you I don't want anything from me shared with her just like she treats me and I took those photos on behalf of dh not for her she can take her own photos
Sil said I know you and bm don't talk and I don't wanna start drama so if I hurt you by doing it I apologize
I sat down and I thought about it and I kept saying to myself if two people don't talk I wouldn't even do something like that. Was she so desperately trying to get in good graces with bm and be so friendly that she ran and sent all the photos I sent to her to her.
Few days later and we are not talking. There are even some fb status going up back and forth.
how would you feel? Could I be wrong?