I don't want to CO MIL, UD 3
This ended up very long, apologies... I have a few older posts on here and will try to link BG: http://community.babycenter.com/post/a52672258/how_to_gently_phrase_this?cpg=2#c2470438153...
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can sisters go in this group too?
My sister lives far from me, but she's really trying to come see lo (6 weeks old now) and help me with whatever she can. I'm really grateful for that since we don't have any family near by besides her....
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Should I Be Offended?
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View ArticleNormal check, GPR joke and glamma
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MIL DSD vs ME !
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View Article"Just eat it and don't be stupid!" TRIGGER Newest Update: 37 Time to respond
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