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Background: DH and I have coustdy over his 8 year old daughter she lives with us. DH and I been together 5 years we have a 1 year old and 1 month old. MIL and me have had fights I had to kick her out more than twice. MIL favors DSD over my two boys.
THE PROBLEM: DSD is so disrespectful to me examples when I ask her to clean her room she rolls hers and asks why the says her daddy said she doesn't have to. Which I know is a lie. Today I caught her punching my one year old DS in the arm. When I asked her why she did it she said because he so irritating. I called DH and told him what happend I should've mentioned that DH goes out of town every three months for work. DH talked to her I don't know what he said to her. Whatever he said made her cry and she went to her room. Then around two hours after that MIL came over just popped up asked where the kids was she played with them while I cooked dinner. DSD lied to her and told MIL that I made her stay in her room all day I hit her all these lies. MIL came in the kitchen yelled saying all this to me I asked her why would I do that to her I would never I don't even put my hands on my own kids. Then she left and said she calling the police. Right after that I called DH and told him everything in tears. What do I do now ?
Background: DH and I have coustdy over his 8 year old daughter she lives with us. DH and I been together 5 years we have a 1 year old and 1 month old. MIL and me have had fights I had to kick her out more than twice. MIL favors DSD over my two boys.
THE PROBLEM: DSD is so disrespectful to me examples when I ask her to clean her room she rolls hers and asks why the says her daddy said she doesn't have to. Which I know is a lie. Today I caught her punching my one year old DS in the arm. When I asked her why she did it she said because he so irritating. I called DH and told him what happend I should've mentioned that DH goes out of town every three months for work. DH talked to her I don't know what he said to her. Whatever he said made her cry and she went to her room. Then around two hours after that MIL came over just popped up asked where the kids was she played with them while I cooked dinner. DSD lied to her and told MIL that I made her stay in her room all day I hit her all these lies. MIL came in the kitchen yelled saying all this to me I asked her why would I do that to her I would never I don't even put my hands on my own kids. Then she left and said she calling the police. Right after that I called DH and told him everything in tears. What do I do now ?