I'm almost scared to post but I was sent this way from the June birth board...here goes!
My fiancé and I have been together four years and bought a house last year April, just right down the road from where I lived, 2hrs from where he lived. His mother moved in with him after her divorce and he has supported her since. The house is paid for, he paid it off back in 2009 I believe. So he moved here with me and left her there responsible for all the monthly bills and had them put in her name.
Fast forward to October, I found out I was pregnant, after not being considered fertile by my 3 main doctors (history of cancer and half removed, thyroid disorder and an iud) but I was sure nough pregnant! We let that cat out of the bag in December before Christmas.
My parents and children are shocked but they are accepting. His mother called me and offered me $3000 to leave him and have an abortion.
She hasn't ever been downright mean to me but never nice...snide comments like how sweet you are but have you considered liposuction? I'm 6' and 250 average before pregnancy, she is 4'11" and 100lbs.
Fast forward to the beginning of April, my fiancé comes home and tells me about the baby shower being thrown for the baby on Friday, it was Wednesday. I immediately was like that's very sweet of her and where is it being held and what time...he looked real hard at me and said honey she said you don't have to worry about showing up.
Now it's been like 2 weeks and I know the party happened, at a Quality Inn rented out room with a band, I am a friend of his cousin on Facebook, I saw the gifts piled up in pictures...and she called my fiancé to fix a sink at the house and he confirmed there were several items there but he didn't ask about them, he was just waiting it out, see what she does...2 weeks later and not a single gift was given, not a single gift card or anything!
I had a baby shower thrown for me by my mom and her neighbor, my mom reached out and invited her and she declined...and it was yesterday and my fmil was not there.
Should I confront her about the baby shower?
Does she think she is keeping everything at her house so she can keep the baby?
Should I just not sweat it?
My fiancé and I have been together four years and bought a house last year April, just right down the road from where I lived, 2hrs from where he lived. His mother moved in with him after her divorce and he has supported her since. The house is paid for, he paid it off back in 2009 I believe. So he moved here with me and left her there responsible for all the monthly bills and had them put in her name.
Fast forward to October, I found out I was pregnant, after not being considered fertile by my 3 main doctors (history of cancer and half removed, thyroid disorder and an iud) but I was sure nough pregnant! We let that cat out of the bag in December before Christmas.
My parents and children are shocked but they are accepting. His mother called me and offered me $3000 to leave him and have an abortion.
She hasn't ever been downright mean to me but never nice...snide comments like how sweet you are but have you considered liposuction? I'm 6' and 250 average before pregnancy, she is 4'11" and 100lbs.
Fast forward to the beginning of April, my fiancé comes home and tells me about the baby shower being thrown for the baby on Friday, it was Wednesday. I immediately was like that's very sweet of her and where is it being held and what time...he looked real hard at me and said honey she said you don't have to worry about showing up.
Now it's been like 2 weeks and I know the party happened, at a Quality Inn rented out room with a band, I am a friend of his cousin on Facebook, I saw the gifts piled up in pictures...and she called my fiancé to fix a sink at the house and he confirmed there were several items there but he didn't ask about them, he was just waiting it out, see what she does...2 weeks later and not a single gift was given, not a single gift card or anything!
I had a baby shower thrown for me by my mom and her neighbor, my mom reached out and invited her and she declined...and it was yesterday and my fmil was not there.
Should I confront her about the baby shower?
Does she think she is keeping everything at her house so she can keep the baby?
Should I just not sweat it?