I always knew this girl had something wrong with her.
two years ago, everyone liked me, and bil girlfriend (lets call her Katie) was starting a business. I hired her, then she was late with deadlines. I asked her to please hurry with deadlines. So, in short she didnt do the best of work. Since then DH family has acted weird towards me.
i obviously knew she manipulated that whole situation but thought it would blow over. DH would listen to me but not outwardly agree or disagree with me
at christmas her and BIL missed christmas when BIL knew we were announcing pregnancy of our first baby. Due august 2016. When asked "katie" said "oh i thought we would skip it i feel like i took a lot of attention last year". (im getting to this ridiculous statement in a bit)
She has my in-laws totally...i dont even know the word for it. When BIL and her met she had a "bad home life" and came to live with them. She has complained about her family and how horrible they are since she has came around two years ago. MIL babies her to the point that its pathetic.
MIL has given this girl the world. Bought her clothes and helped her a ton.
Last christmas, she bought Katie a BIG expensive christmas gift. It seemed like it was Katies first christmas. DH and i rolled our eyes but didnt really care. MIL made such a spectacle I actually thought she didnt get christmas gifts growing up. she did though.
Back to now. Recently DH and I have been BUSY we havent had much time to go down (1.5 hours) to visit. However, we have been down a ton in the last two weeks.
DH pointed out "have you noticed that whenever kaite comes over everyones attitude changes?" YES!!!! I have known this for two years now but okay DH thank you for picking up the clue phone!
Their attitudes drastically change when she comes in that is the truth. Its bizzare. One minute everyone is relaxed and friendly then katie walks in and everyone is acting like...im not sure. I did notice specifically though they laugh at my jokes when shes not there. When she is, no laughter.
She also has baby rabies like crazy. She smokes. And at katies ripe old age of 20 constantly talks with MIL about having chilren. MIL told me she lost her birth control perscription. CREEPY!!!! Also, BIL doesnt want children.
MIL used to like me before this twit came around. I used to have people we both know tell me how highly she thought of me. Now ever since i hired katie to do a simple job (take pictures of my mother) and then she "forgot" to give me my prints for 2 months. Everyone has acted super weird towards me.
A few other randoms: katie "forgets" she cant smoke around me (the pregnant lady), she constantly redirects attention to herself by telling a sob story (my dad wouldnt work because he needed to smoke cigarettes) pretty sure thats a lie. And last but not least the story she told me about when she was jealous of a girl for being skinnier than her so she made all these cookies and stuf to make her gain weight. Psycho much???
DH is now upset because she has the whole family dynamic changed when she walks in the room and hes pissed shes manipulating his mother like this. which i get but i dont know what to do!
How do i get people to see that she is a MANIPULATOR!! I fear what shes going to do when baby is the center of attention. I also dont want her holding him smelling like cigarettes.
I apologize for the awful grammar.