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Am I overreacting by wanting to CO? (Long... Sad UD page 9)
I have been wanting to post this for awhile, but after reading various posts on here and realizing that my situation isn't nearly as bad as some others, I feel like I might be overreacting. I am hoping...
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Delete grandkid debil pics, MIL, 4, trigger 7, 8, 9, 14,15, TO 16, delivery...
I have been reporting pics and messaging my MIL since January to delete pics of my kids on her debil. All requests have been ignored. I kinda figured they would be because she's clueless when it comes...
View ArticleHow do you recover from CO your mother and sisters? Update pg 4, Second...
I've had the worst three months of my life. DH and I separated on Christmas Day, after I found out about him being unfaithful. Believe it or not, thats not even my issue. He and I are in therapy trying...
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Enabling Granny sends burn letter 9 years later TRIGGERS
Lurker gone anon. Read the sticky. I've got my BGP on. This is long. TLDR at the end. Background contains TRIGGERS I've had a rocky relationship with my dad for my entire life. We haven't talked in...
View ArticleNeed help telling in-laws that I don't trust them with the kids
I want a healthy relationship with my MIL - she's a great person who runs a food bank & loves her family & has survived living in communist regimes & survived actual famines! I feel crazy...
View ArticleMIL says they're going to be moving to new state when you do?
So... Short background. MIL is BSC. I've been with DH since we were 15, when he wasn't "allowed" to have a girlfriend, so the first she recognized me as anything more than a friend to DH was once...
View ArticleHow do we move forward, DWIL style? Update page 4,5,8,10
Background: http://community.babycenter.com/post/a61528924/how-do-i-respond?cpg=6 After talking with my therapist, he suggested I send another message to address it. I don't have another appointment...
View ArticleNeed to confront the ILs... UD 3, 6, 8, TO 9, 10, 11, 12, 13
DH and I would like some help addressing some issues with MIL. She plays the victim very well, so text/email is probably the best way to prevent our words from being twisted. Some background: Outsiders...
View ArticleNow I have become the problem. (Really, Really Long) Update Page 14, 24)
So there is a lot of background. And on here. I would have to find the posts. But, DH and I have been working through issues and getting along really well. So we stopped at DH's mom's house on the way...
View ArticleTrying to slow fade.... **Trigger towards end** Update 3
Dwil, I have been lurking for a while and have made steps to better my life and get away from my enmeshed foo. I have been trying to slow fade but it has only been a couple weeks and I already feel the...
View ArticleMy SIL is crazy!
I originally posted this in June 2016 board but was advised to post it here So I was contacted today by someone who knows my SIL and it turns out she has been claiming my first DD as her own! She's...
View ArticleBIL Girlfriend Major Psycho
I always knew this girl had something wrong with her. two years ago, everyone liked me, and bil girlfriend (lets call her Katie) was starting a business. I hired her, then she was late with...
View ArticleRude reaction to baby news / No MD visit
I'm looking for advice and help on how to deal with family members calling us out for not calling/visiting my MIL on Mother's Day. Rewind to last Thursday before the big day. We gave an eight month old...
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When they want to "fix" things and you don't want it fixed... UD 8, 17, 19, 23
I've posted a few times about the ILs, but this is completely unrelated. We attend a smallish church, one of the "everyone knows everyone" types where many families have multiple generations there. In...
View ArticleMIL stealing shower gifts 32,34,43-47,49,58,71,75,107,118,195 207,216,...
Hi, a lady on my birth board told me about you guys and said I might need your advice. I'll explain the sitch and my plan (cutting and pasting from my birth club) I don't know if this is on topic but I...
View ArticleAbusive mother wants to see soon-to-be grandchild? Advice? *trigger warning*
My mom abused me for my entire life. I escaped her almost a year ago. Since then, I've been recovering best I can. Plus, now I'm engaged and roughly three months pregnant with my first child. Problem...
View ArticleSIL unloaded on DH about all my faults. Moving onto PILs pg 12
A couple of weeks ago Dh's sister unloaded on him about a lot of things that were bothering her including her perception of me more or less being a insensitive controlling bitch and how he/we were...
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Am I dumb for opening my mouth and voicing my opinion?
Well last night was Mexican Mother's Day and my ILs invited my DH cousin to dinner. During dinner, his cousin was talking about how hard her marriage has been for years. How it's really bad (giving...
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cross post- destinateion wedding- MIL
Need your input here ladies. My husband and i have 3 kids, 5 months, almost 2 and almost 5. His very close cousin (who lives a 2 hour frlight from us) has decided to get married in Turks and Caicos....
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Photos of CO people *Triggers* Q pg 11, Ud 15, Blanket 21, 24
Going through a divorce. Once finalized I'm moving to a very anti GPR state. No legal needed, I have Google and a lawyer thanks. Lots of background but it's complicated and a lot of my normal meter so...
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