Update! The host spoke to the uncle and the wife and used the nice tactic. Uncles wife says she wants to leave uncle at home and bring DD so they only use the two spots!!! Seriously?! She wants to make my uncle stay home so she and her daughter can come?! WTF??? Now I HAVE to deal with this myself! Crap! Being nice and sensitive didn't work!!! Damn it!!!
The short version: our co-ed baby shower is coming up. We invited uncle and his third wife who I am not close with (I'm not close with him either actually). Invite was to just the two of them. She tells my dad she is bringing her teenage daughter whomis a violent, unmedicated schizophrenic. She has been committed frequently including recently. Mom won't let her go on medication because she says God is going to heal her. I told my parents to make it clear that we are having a small party at a house and there is no room for extra guests, in fact we already had to substantially cut our guest list. We can't use a no kids excuse since there are going to be many kids. This girl scares me. How do I make sure she stays away. Should I get involved? What do I do if they bring her anyway?
The short version: our co-ed baby shower is coming up. We invited uncle and his third wife who I am not close with (I'm not close with him either actually). Invite was to just the two of them. She tells my dad she is bringing her teenage daughter whomis a violent, unmedicated schizophrenic. She has been committed frequently including recently. Mom won't let her go on medication because she says God is going to heal her. I told my parents to make it clear that we are having a small party at a house and there is no room for extra guests, in fact we already had to substantially cut our guest list. We can't use a no kids excuse since there are going to be many kids. This girl scares me. How do I make sure she stays away. Should I get involved? What do I do if they bring her anyway?