MIL won't let me enjoy my pregnancy
UPDATE: The house we live in belongs to DH and we live with the ILs because they are elderly and need us around. Also its fairly common here in India for grown up children to host the parents and...
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I've posted here about fil but am not sure how to link bg. I'll try and keep this short. First my mil is my bec. She pulled something truly awful in the past, pre dwil, and I let it get rug swept. I...
View ArticleMIL Mad at me for telling her not to give my 8 month old honey UPDATE PG 56
I'm a lurker and have always thought I would never need to make a post. MIL has always been crazy but we've learned to deal with it and it's rarely directed at me or DH. So my DH watched the kids while...
View ArticleDH sent the text anyway, another detail p. 7, UD 18, 22, 27, 30, 38, 43
First time poster here, have been reading for a while but went anonymous. I've been in IL hell for the 7 years I've been married. ILs are emotionally abusive and treat DH and me horribly. For the...
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"Fixing" things that you don't want fixed UD 8, 17, 19, 23, 38, 52 (triggers...
I've posted a few times about the ILs, but this is completely unrelated. We attend a smallish church, one of the "everyone knows everyone" types where many families have multiple generations there. In...
View ArticleSIL and MIL becoming my BECs after LO's birth. UD5, 12, 14, 20, 31, 35, 37,...
I have some background here already, the issues pertaining to my in-laws might be relevant:...
View ArticleMooching Brother in law. Help!
I'm at my wits end. I don't now what to do or how to approach it but I'm so fed up. I support my little family. I work as a CNA while my boyfriend goes to college full time and watches our toddler and...
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Am i in the wrong.... So's mom
Longtime lurker , first time poster. We will be 36 weeks on Wednesday , this whole pregnancy has been wonderful and stress free. Recently we sent all close family a text message letting them know of...
View ArticleNot sure what to do... Question on 2
I have posted bits here and there, can't link because I am on cell. Got along with MIL before having my son. Boundary stomps have caused her to be my BEC. Ranging from 'surprise visits' while I was in...
View ArticleMIL RUINING VACAY 541
ALL UPDATES: 6, 8, 9, 10, 11, 14, 32, 36, 39, 46, 62, 67, 74, 75, 76, 82 fibonaccisequins transcribed texts, 97, 104, 105, 106, 110, 111+ bonus veggie lasagna recipe, 124--Fearless Leader's lyrics...
View Articlemil ramping up. UD 1, BG 2,3
So, mil has a drug problem. Things finally came to a head in march when she showed up to my son's sporting event high. DH had been a DUH up to that point and wouldn't take my word for it (that's...
View ArticleFeeling left out in family
My inlaws are always going out on the boat every weekend and never invite me or their granddaughter. They invite my husband but he is always busy or working, but when he does go they go about 18 miles...
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A little bit of Llama nomz
I'm a regular lurker, but I had to share some Llama nomz. My MIL has been ITO for a few weeks after getting a major case of baby rabies. She sent this to my DH today and said "truth"....BARF. DH is a...
View ArticleUPDATEUncle wants to bring 3rd wifes violent, unmedicated schizophrenic...
Update! The host spoke to the uncle and the wife and used the nice tactic. Uncles wife says she wants to leave uncle at home and bring DD so they only use the two spots!!! Seriously?! She wants to make...
View ArticleStop means stop...update 4
Same old, same old. Old member new name. Crap ton of lurking, need guidance. I had issues with my parents two years ago, some of my siblings took my parents side when the shouldnt have been involved....
View ArticleI know I am being a brat, but how do I get over this?
Poster gone anon. I've read the sticky and am ready for you all to tell me I'm being a brat. Maybe it is what I need to hear to finally get over this. So sorry if it's extremely long. I found out I...
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Am I right to be pissed?
Ok so almost a year ago SO cheated on me with someone really close to me. We decided to work things out. Back ground info: this girl was my best friend and her aunt is mil best friend so it's as if...
View Article"Do you feed him Cheetos?"
I met up with my son's grandmother because I hadn't seen her in awhile and felt bad because she doesn't get to see her grandson often. So her very first and serious question to me was "do you feed him...
View Articleadvice on situation, noms on 5
Dh and I have been married almost 10 years. 2 kids (3y/5m) I've seen my bil a handful of times through all of this. He's not a bad person in general. I don't agree with a lot of things but I hardly see...
View ArticleDue August 1st and mom is getting out of control
I hope I don't sound a whiner. My baby girl is due August 1. The past two weeks I've been hospitalized and had scares. Sunday I was at the hospital with DH. A nurse who knows my mom was on duty at the...
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