How to address this with DH...
So I've posted here a time or two before but I mostly lurk. Dwil has really helped me with my spine (and my dh's spine) when it comes to dealing with ILs. Without getting into too much background, MIL...
View ArticleCO MOO leaves gifts at door for DD. I need advice pls.Trigger, update: pg 7
Short BG: My mother is a very manipulative, angry person who thinks its her innate right to disrespect me because she's my mother. After a short berating via text and years of emotional abuse and...
View Article19 month old son and MIL
Hey everyone. So long story short, me and my mother in law don't get along. We are civil but it is obvious that we don't really care for each other. I don't keep my son away from her but she wants him...
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Coming out of the fog about my mother:We are home pg 10, 12 more bs:pg 14...
So, been a lurker since 2007, originally with the birth board. Found this board about a year or so ago. Background. Dh and I married in 2005. ( we were both 35 years old) We have two beautiful boys DS1...
View ArticleTime sensitive - Advice ASAP PLS
BG: http://community.babycenter.com/post/a63412636/to-letter-to-foo-is-this-ok?cpg=6 I am posting this separately because I need help right away, and I don't know how to change the title on my previous...
View ArticleUD 13 SO UD 27 baby is here! UD 34 MIL texts UD 42 bsc coming? 51 question...
I’m 35 weeks pregnant and have been having some trouble dealing with SO’s mother and her FM (SO and I are engaged but MIL is faster to type) Here is the BG from 2 previous posts:...
View ArticleSIL and MIL becoming my BECs after LO's birth. UD5, 12, 14, 20, 31, 35, 37,...
I have some background here already, the issues pertaining to my in-laws might be relevant:...
View ArticleILs want to come out and wait for baby to be born UPDATE pg 9, 22
I'm due in October and my in laws want to set a date to come out and just wait for baby to be born. I don't think I'm going to want to have to entertain them everyday, while being super pregnant, while...
View ArticleUncle wants to bring 3rd wifes violent, unmedicated schizophrenic daughter to...
The short version: our co-ed baby shower is coming up. We invited uncle and his third wife who I am not close with (I'm not close with him either actually). Invite was to just the two of them. She...
View ArticleOh help. How to BE a MIL.
Ok, from my siggy you can tell that my kids range from 5 to 21. Well, the 21 year-old DS called today to say his GF is pregnant. He's living halfway aross the country where he goes to university. I'm...
View ArticleMIL & Deployment
A little BG... I like MIL & we've had no problems in the past. We lived near her for a couple of years & rarely saw her, just the occasional family get together. A year & a half ago we...
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Is an invitation ever a summons?
BG might be relevant. http://community.babycenter.com/post/a59504890/spine_is_shiny._storm_is_coming._ud_pg.34_should_i_drop_it Recent situation: I had inlaws over for a BBQ at my home in June. I have...
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Please tell me if I am in the wrong in handling MIL
Hey everyone, So a little backstory is that my DH and I have been together for 6.5 years. In our early relationship we lived at mil house and I spent time with her daily. She was never nice to me and...
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Am i in the wrong.... So's mom
Longtime lurker , first time poster. We will be 36 weeks on Wednesday , this whole pregnancy has been wonderful and stress free. Recently we sent all close family a text message letting them know of...
View ArticleFeeling left out in family
My inlaws are always going out on the boat every weekend and never invite me or their granddaughter. They invite my husband but he is always busy or working, but when he does go they go about 18 miles...
View ArticleDoes pregnancy induced hating people?
I'm starting to dislike my mother in law and my sister in law. My MIL know that i'm pregnant and expect to help out in the kitchen especially when im at early stage now.. crucial period. I'm nausea.. i...
View ArticleMom/MIL Needs Advice!
Long-time lurker but made this account as I wanted a place to freely express myself without being tied to my old account and people who know me IRL I have 4 kids, ODS who is 22, ODD who is 11, MDD who...
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Boundary Stomping SMom demanding to be at birth UD 5, 10, 16, 18, 30, 33, 36,...
Alright this is probably going to be long but I need to get it all out so that I can get the cold hard truth and best way to handle this from you all. BG: My sis and I were finally able to contact our...
View ArticleSIL expects me to watch her kids on the family vacation
My husband has one sister and two brothers, as well as MIL and FIL. Each summer, MIL plans a family trip to the shore. Her goal is for all of the kids to come and, as they have added spouses/children,...
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Baby due in 9 days… Ready to TO/CO my MOO. Domestic abuse TRIGGERS
FTM and I started lurking when I joined BC at the beginning of my pregnancy. I have never posted but I love this community. Your stories and experiences have really helped me to stand up for myself...
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