LO is 10 weeks today.
My mil only saw him maybe twice since he was born (once in hospital and once around 2 weeks) she lives maybe 10mins for us or so. When I was in LD she tried to run everything like it was her baby. It got to the point where I kicked everyone out the room to BF and she barged in yelling instruction on how to latch my son on while I was already doing so myself. At the hospital she made a specticual talking shit about me to my own family that it got to the point where my family walked away and ignored her. DH even had to apologize to them for her shitty behavior. She never called to check up on baby since maybe June 28 nor even visit. Yesterday was BIL bday dinner and she called us last min to go I didn't want to but DH forced it. I felt pissed that she did that because why should I be having to take my child to her when she gave no fucks for him for almost 2 months as soon as we got there she started kissing all over my son which is something I HATE! She then went on to take thousands of pics of him and her carrying him. Again this lady is never once called to check on LO or even her own son yet she used my son as a prop (the way I saw it) just to get "likes" on her Facebook pics. DH and I aren't on speaking terms now because he doesn't think his mom did anything wrong. I just think it's bullshit how she ONLY wants to see my son when it's convent for her. And the fact that she was so quick to start posing with him as grandma of the year pissed me off. My mom till this day will NEVER do that when I bring baby to them they know it's time to spend time with him and never once use him as a prop to take pics they're very involved in his life and are great grandparents to my son. As soon as MIL was done taking pics with him she pretty much kicked us out because we refused to allow her to bring other relatives that day over to meet my son. My son doesn't have his shots yet (will be getting them today) and she had already planned to introduce him to her side of the family when since LO was born I told her no. I feel DH didn't have my back and he's just avoiding talking about it all saying I need to let it go but I hate how she pretty much wants to disrespect my son the same way she's done to be since I've been married to DH I don't need my son thinking in the future that it's ok for people to come in and out of his life dysfunctionally. Even when we were at her house LO was scared and looked around so afraid. He usually laughs and coos with my family and just in general everyday yet yesterday all he did was frown and look at them all confused and wanted to cry when they held him
My mil only saw him maybe twice since he was born (once in hospital and once around 2 weeks) she lives maybe 10mins for us or so. When I was in LD she tried to run everything like it was her baby. It got to the point where I kicked everyone out the room to BF and she barged in yelling instruction on how to latch my son on while I was already doing so myself. At the hospital she made a specticual talking shit about me to my own family that it got to the point where my family walked away and ignored her. DH even had to apologize to them for her shitty behavior. She never called to check up on baby since maybe June 28 nor even visit. Yesterday was BIL bday dinner and she called us last min to go I didn't want to but DH forced it. I felt pissed that she did that because why should I be having to take my child to her when she gave no fucks for him for almost 2 months as soon as we got there she started kissing all over my son which is something I HATE! She then went on to take thousands of pics of him and her carrying him. Again this lady is never once called to check on LO or even her own son yet she used my son as a prop (the way I saw it) just to get "likes" on her Facebook pics. DH and I aren't on speaking terms now because he doesn't think his mom did anything wrong. I just think it's bullshit how she ONLY wants to see my son when it's convent for her. And the fact that she was so quick to start posing with him as grandma of the year pissed me off. My mom till this day will NEVER do that when I bring baby to them they know it's time to spend time with him and never once use him as a prop to take pics they're very involved in his life and are great grandparents to my son. As soon as MIL was done taking pics with him she pretty much kicked us out because we refused to allow her to bring other relatives that day over to meet my son. My son doesn't have his shots yet (will be getting them today) and she had already planned to introduce him to her side of the family when since LO was born I told her no. I feel DH didn't have my back and he's just avoiding talking about it all saying I need to let it go but I hate how she pretty much wants to disrespect my son the same way she's done to be since I've been married to DH I don't need my son thinking in the future that it's ok for people to come in and out of his life dysfunctionally. Even when we were at her house LO was scared and looked around so afraid. He usually laughs and coos with my family and just in general everyday yet yesterday all he did was frown and look at them all confused and wanted to cry when they held him