Taking from a baby
Search Submit Hey ladies! Longtime lurker first time poster and all that jazz. So I'm having an issue with AIL. A little background, my 1yo DD has CHARGE Syndrome and along with other issues is...
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So I will do my best to keep this first part short because I could go on and on. MIL is incredibly controlling and religious. We are using hormonal birth control and she is a believer that it causes...
View ArticleHelp me deal with babies rabies MOO. Update page 4...
Occasional lurker going anon because I was dumb and used my real name as my screen name and I'm paranoid. You guys give solid advice and I need help with dealing with my mom. Not sure where to start so...
View ArticleAm I doing something wrong?
Bg: My XH and I dated through high school, married at 20, had 3 kids then he walked out after 10 years. The kids live with me in our hometown, his family lives here. He lives out of state with new wife...
View ArticleAm I coming out of the FOG or toxic?
I have no normal meter. There is a lot of BG on this that I would rather avoid. The pertinent BG to this situation is that my FOO is BSC. Always has been. Trigger - my FOO also put us in abusive...
View ArticleAIL guilt tripping DH "God help you for hating your mother"
I have posted once before about my FOO, I don't think it's relevant but it's here: Â http://community.babycenter.com/post/a62854684"> Â I'm posting today because I'm filled with rage and frustration...
View ArticleMIL want ME to visit HER hours after birth?!
Hi ladies!! I recently found out I was pregnant with our 4th and when I told my MIL the news... She asked who I was going to see for this baby since my insurance no longer covers my old OB. I had...
View ArticleAm I overreacting!?
LO is 10 weeks today. My mil only saw him maybe twice since he was born (once in hospital and once around 2 weeks) she lives maybe 10mins for us or so. When I was in LD she tried to run everything like...
View ArticleBEC MIL and SIL. UD5,12,14,20,31,35,37,46,53, 59, 67, Xmas question 87
I have some background here already, the issues pertaining to my in-laws might be relevant:...
View ArticleMy plan for the slow fade
Background: http://community.babycenter.com/post/a62993194 Hope that worked, but that was my first post on this topic. We canceled, and there was no real backlash from that, but I am still done. I am...
View ArticleSuccess Story! MIL is finally powerless in my home
I can tell how completely pissed she is, and I love it. I know, it's a little immature, just let me have my moment. It's been almost a year since I let my MIL in my house, with communication only over...
View ArticleNeed advice with grandma boundaries!
Hello! It seems this is a pretty common issue so I'd love some advice. My MIL is super sweet and so far we have a good relationship. Since finding out I was pregnant she was super excited (first...
View ArticlePILs spreading disturbing lies about me. Proof on FB. How to respond? .
I have history on here. Long story short, DH is a recovering DUH. We are in marital and individual counseling to deal with how him putting his mother first and disregarding my needs nearly wrecked our...
View ArticleHelp with ILs
So I'm new at the whole DWIL stuff but I know I need to be here because of all the issues I have. 1) BIL was going to be my sons legal guardian in the event something happened to DH & I, I found...
View ArticleNurse mil upd p18
DH and I are expecting our first baby in December. His parents, mil in particular have become like magnets towards me. Mil is a nurse. When I was 16 weeks she cane over with a Doppler so to hear the...
View ArticleMoney question- newbie
This is my first DWIL post. My in-laws have a history of needing money and not being able to pay bills. Almost exactly 4 years ago they foreclosed on their house. BIL and SIL have been together for...
View ArticleUpdate, page 7. Not an in-law issue, but is a family issue
I'll attempt to make it short, but I know it'll be long, also that everything will come together in the end. First, I have several kids, oldest who is a pre-teen is our only dd. Now, dd is very social,...
View ArticleHow to keep baby warm?
Its end of august so may as well be winter here in Uk. How do I keep the babies warmer at night besides turning the heating on. Sleep suits (onesies) seem to thin for winter. And theres no chance...
View ArticleTaking from a baby
Search Submit Hey ladies! Longtime lurker first time poster and all that jazz. So I'm having an issue with AIL. A little background, my 1yo DD has CHARGE Syndrome and along with other issues is...
View ArticleMIL issues and DuH
DH and I have been together 6 years and only married a few months. I am almost 20 weeks pregnant. Prior to marriage we seldom saw his family. If I knew then what I know now I probably wouldn't be...
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