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Wedding etiquette/Gatekeeper mom question
I'm going to try to keep this brief. I knew that there would be no better place to ask than here. So my parents received a wedding invite for our family (parents plus 5 kids ranging from 25-9yo.) The...
View ArticleMIL RUINING VACAY 541
ALL UPDATES: 6, 8, 9, 10, 11, 14, 32, 36, 39, 46, 62, 67, 74, 75, 76, 82 fibonaccisequins transcribed texts, 97, 104, 105, 106, 110, 111+ bonus veggie lasagna recipe, 124--Fearless Leader's lyrics...
View ArticleNurse mil
DH and I are expecting our first baby in December. His parents, mil in particular have become like magnets towards me. Mil is a nurse. When I was 16 weeks she cane over with a Doppler so to hear the...
View ArticleStuck
We recently moved countries and have been living with my mil and her partner till we get on our feet again. There are 5 adults and 3 children in the house. As I an currently the only one not working (...
View ArticleFIL said I'm 'not coping'!
Have some BG on here - will link in a subsequent post. I'm 35 wks pregnant with No 2. FIL and MIL are both my BECs and also a bit BSC. I'm trying to work out whether I'm making a mountain out of a...
View ArticleFamily doesn't like my relationship
I'm white and my boyfriend who is the father of my unborn baby, is black. It pains me to write this but it must be written for emphasis. In my family there's never been race mixing. My uncle has done...
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What do i owe my FOO?
My parents had helped me out with my year old DS A LOT for the first8 months. I had a complicated csec and horrible recovery. DH Had to travel a lot to another country for tax reasons. DS is extremely...
View ArticleMIL...Entitlement Problem? Question pg5
Okay. I have one other thread here, but it's about FOO, so not relevant. DH and I are having an issue with MIL. I'm not even sure how to explain it. I'll try to answer any questions/provide background...
View ArticleMy Mom
I am 9 weeks 6 days pregnant. My mom figured it out Saturday. She said that my boobs and skin gave it away. I asked her not to tell anyone because my DH and I were waiting until I was 12 weeks before...
View ArticleMIL wins again
I have another post on here explaining everything going on with BSC MIL and the community gave me the strength to sit down with DH and explain how I felt about her and that I think she either needs a...
View ArticleMIL coming to visit after a 6 month TO
My MIL (SOs mother to be precise) was put on a TO for six months back in April and my SO and I have been attending counseling. She is planning a visit to see us and our 17 month old LO in October when...
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I don't like spending time with my dad, ELC
I've been lurking for a while, getting a lot of good tips from reading other posts... BG: I used to be very close to my dad growing up, and we had a great relationship. When my parents divorced when I...
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So I've CO IL's, SO getting harassed, what to do? update p.11
IL's are awful, they were TO for a month or two and SO had talked to them and explained a lot of the things that we didn't like and our boundaries, visits were slowed down and not so entitled, and I...
View ArticleHow do we respond to DARVO
This is my first time posting. I've read the sticky and have been lurking for about 6 weeks so I think I'm ready. I hope. Edit: It turned out very long even without extra BG. TL;DR: FIL has DARVO'd...
View ArticleMother treats me like a child, update (triggers) 4, 6, 7, 8, good news 10,...
UPDATE (triggers) from p4 Hi all. I have been lurking here for a while and would be very grateful for some advice from you wise DWIL-ers on a very minor matter. BG: I am 33 and have been with my DH...
View ArticleMOO TO... caved when she called.
AHHHHHH. I have background, I will add it, I just need to get this down on paper. I came here originally for my MIL but found that my issues are really with my MOO. (handled MIL ... which was more...
View ArticleMIL complains about "being put on a schedule" UD mil asked SO to sneak LO out...
My FMIL has been giving SO shit because she feels she should be able to text us when she's in the area and ask if she can come by and see LO. In his words, she "grilled him in front of his friend about...
View ArticleLooking to end a TO, but how?: Advice needed UD 4, 5, 8: ITO 13, FIL email 13
Relevant BG http://community.babycenter.com/post/a60407452/its_beginning_to_look_a_lot_like_an_awkward_christmas_updates_121316_rugsweeping_attempt_17 DH and I have decided to begin the process to end...
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I am SO sick and tired of dealing with this *^%#^^
This may get long- Let's start with problem #1 (my in laws). My mil and fil love my sil and are her puppets. It is abuse how sil takes advantage of them. She is almost 40 but relies on them intensely....
View ArticleStay out of it? Update Pg. 2
Hi All, I'm a lurker here and need some advice. Dh and I are in our 40's, married for 15 years, and have 2 kids (11 and 9). My ILs are in their late 70's and live 8 hrs away. We keep in contact with...
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