Mom and my health
I got some startling health news this past Thursday and Friday. I'm 34, just delivered baby #4 two weeks ago (he was 4 weeks early), generally speaking, am pretty healthy. I've lost 170lbs through hard...
View ArticleI think I need to CO my MOO, happily ever after 94, WOW 100, FM 112
I think the time has come to cut out my mom and dad. I'm feeling guilty because their health isn't great, but I just can't let them treat me like this anymore. Background: about 2 years ago I got...
View ArticleWhat would you do
When I first meet my mother-in-law she seemed really nice and like she liked me. As time went on she realized her son and I were serious. We moved and got married and recently had a baby. I had some...
View Articlewhose MIL
This came up in my fb feed this morning, can you say creepy! http://ctrylv.co/snmxTQg
View ArticleAdvice on setting up boundaries
At the moment I do not have issues with my ILs I'm due to have my baby in less than 3 weeks and I currently live with my ILs. So far they have been very accommodating and haven't really cross over too...
View ArticleLooking to end a TO, but how?: Advice needed UD 4, 5, 8: ITO 13, FIL email 13
Relevant BG http://community.babycenter.com/post/a60407452/its_beginning_to_look_a_lot_like_an_awkward_christmas_updates_121316_rugsweeping_attempt_17 DH and I have decided to begin the process to end...
View ArticleMIL favoritism! Please help.
To start things out, my daughter is 18 months old her cousin (girl too) is 14 months old. My other SIL is currently pregnant about 18 weeks. My daughter has been put on the back burner ever since my...
View ArticleI want a diploma in my hand not an ultrasound PG 15 I'm miserable.
"*smh* just what i was missing in my life. I want a diploma in my hand not an ultrasound, I don't want to see that." And that is exactly what my SOs mother said. VENT! We barely told his mom today that...
View ArticleIs SFIL creepy or just odd?
Okay ladies, first - I've been lurking since DS was born almost 3 years ago, but forgot my login info and just lurked without an account out of being too lazy to make a new one. But with the last few...
View Articlein laws want DH and BIL give them money
I'm 23 and my dh is 25. We are four months in to our first pregnancy. He has one other sibling, a brother who is 22. Their parents had them really early. My mil is 43, my FIL is 46. Through the two...
View Article"But...Faaaamily!" - dealing with the naysayers
I'm wondering if many of you have encountered people in your lives - friends, mainly - who react negatively when learning of your family circumstances, particularly those of you who have CO'd toxic...
View ArticleFamily Gathering not Show and Tell
I have posted here before and everyone has been very helpful. So I come back with a new situation. Tonight I go to an impromptu family cookout celebrating my cousin's engagement. I came alone with my...
View ArticleBrother's wife's jealousy club hits it into the rough.
Every Sunday before Labor Day my siblings/families and my family get together to play golf. We do brunch, then the golfers head out, while the non-golfers hang out in the club, then we get together for...
View ArticleShould I cut off my MOO?
I have read the sticky and lurked for probably close to a year....I think it may be time to cut off my MOO. I will try to keep the BG as short as possible. If anyone has questions please ask. BG:...
View ArticlePut myself in tricky situation, pg5,6,7,10&11
I'm honestly not sure where to start. I've been lurking for months and have no idea how to give a clear background without writing a novel. Background: when I started dating dh (probably a duh if I'm...
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Not surprised, but sickened: Llama noms
This is a new account because this story is completely identifiable. My husband is at his brother's (BIL2) wedding this weekend. He is a groomsman. MIL is CO from me and the kids and ELC from my DH. I...
View ArticleSIL Pregnancy Jealousy - Update p 9, email 10
Hi all, I've been lurking for awhile but created an account because things have finally gotten unbearable for me and I'm not sure what to do next. This is long, apologies. BG: SO and I have been...
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I messed up with MIL?
Hi y'all! Hopping over from Dec' 2016 because I'm sure they are sick of my MIL dramarama. My MIL is controlling, disturbed, and a pathological liar. She helps us financially from time to time so I've...
View ArticleMil believes she knows what's right culture wise
Hi people, I'm Anon but a BBC member. I'm in an inter-racial marriage, so my days started out on BBC by being mainly on the Inter-Racial Families Group. About me I'm white, my DH is black. We've been...
View ArticleFeeling suffocated
Hello everyone. I'm a long time lurker. I used to be somewhat active on BBC and boards like DWIL with my old username (unable to login to that one anymore, forgot my password and don't have old email...
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