Hi ladies!!
I recently found out I was pregnant with our 4th and when I told my MIL the news... She asked who I was going to see for this baby since my insurance no longer covers my old OB. I had explained i was planning on seeing a few midwives at a birthing center near me. It gives me the ability to head home a lot sooner. And if everything goes good I will leave 4 hours after birth. YAY!
Well she proceeded to say "well depending on what time you have the baby you need to stop by on your way home so we can see the new baby"
I know it's really early in my pregnancy so I am wondering if I should bring it up again and tell her no? Or just ignore this and hope she forgets?
Her side of the family is all about drama and anytime I say no or things don't go someones way they will all gang up against you. So I'm just wondering if this is worth the fight?
I recently found out I was pregnant with our 4th and when I told my MIL the news... She asked who I was going to see for this baby since my insurance no longer covers my old OB. I had explained i was planning on seeing a few midwives at a birthing center near me. It gives me the ability to head home a lot sooner. And if everything goes good I will leave 4 hours after birth. YAY!
Well she proceeded to say "well depending on what time you have the baby you need to stop by on your way home so we can see the new baby"
I know it's really early in my pregnancy so I am wondering if I should bring it up again and tell her no? Or just ignore this and hope she forgets?
Her side of the family is all about drama and anytime I say no or things don't go someones way they will all gang up against you. So I'm just wondering if this is worth the fight?