Back story: I've always gotten along with the IL but when I got pregnant everything changed. Especially with her being born it was a nightmare. They were so jealous she came out exactly my twin and tried to find anything to say she looked like them. For example FIL was OBSESSED with trying to find out her blood type. I told him 500 times she won't unless she is sick and then they need to know. Apparently they all have the same blood type and wanted to know if she had their blood..... Like it mattered? They used to invite themselves over and stay for 8+ hours and they wanted us to give them our weekly schedule so they could see her everyday I put a stop to that really quick.
so FF to the end of June my brother and sisters went on a long weekend to Florida. After a lot of convincing from my husband I went and left LO with him. I turned 21 while pregnant and never got to go to a bar or anything so I was a little excited but it was also stressful being states away from my family.
Well when I returned my husband told me that his mother called me selfish and a horrible mother for going and she would never leave her family to go on vacation. But the entire time I was down there she was telling me I deserve to be down there and that I'm such a good mom. She was being two faced as hell. I was and still am hurt by those words. I try my hardest to be the best mom because I have no idea what it's like to have a mom. I bounced from foster home to foster home until my family now adopted me when I was 17. So I struggle with the motherly thing but it has not been as difficult as I thought.
Now fast forward a month and she has completely turned her side of the family against me and she is playing the victim. Now everyone is messaging me telling me that I just need to forgive her and that it isn't worth it. Blah blah blah. I am truly not the forgive and forget type of person I have been through some shit and I refuse to go through more shit in my life caused by someone else.
Last week my LO great grandmother offered me 100 dollars to just forgive and forget all of this and I'm like uhhh no?
Then this morning I wake up from a text from MIL saying I have mail so I replied and said DH is on his way. While there she threw a big fit saying it isn't fair that I keep LO away from her and that she would never apologize because she did nothing wrong. She threw a onesie at DH and said here's this since I don't get to see my granddaughter. I really had not been petty this entire time so that was my last straw and I decided to be petty lol the only form of her seeing LO was on fb so today I blocked her lmao oh well
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