So I haven't announced my pregnancy but I did tell my elderly sick grandma and my cousin who was very rabid with my angel baby.
I've been trying to think of the best way to handle her since losing my last child in February. My cousin sent me a message asking how I'm doing? Then asking how far along I am and then asking if she can accompany my family to our elective gender sonogram were planning on having.
I've come to realize I have no back bone. I also realize that I'm enabling the rabies by not denying her flat out. With most expiriences being insanity the farther along you get any tips on politely denying her? I just want to be able to keep the baby rabies in check but not offending her. She means well I think and otherwise harmless. I seriously need to grow a backbone but I'm pretty sure my normal meter is broken.
Could this be normal loving family behavior or rabies? I'm so used to my family being against me reproducing and beyond unsupportive. HELP?!
I've been trying to think of the best way to handle her since losing my last child in February. My cousin sent me a message asking how I'm doing? Then asking how far along I am and then asking if she can accompany my family to our elective gender sonogram were planning on having.
I've come to realize I have no back bone. I also realize that I'm enabling the rabies by not denying her flat out. With most expiriences being insanity the farther along you get any tips on politely denying her? I just want to be able to keep the baby rabies in check but not offending her. She means well I think and otherwise harmless. I seriously need to grow a backbone but I'm pretty sure my normal meter is broken.
Could this be normal loving family behavior or rabies? I'm so used to my family being against me reproducing and beyond unsupportive. HELP?!