So, I have been reading boundaries and trying to work out some issues with MIL. I guess it is not only MIL but also trying to get DuH on board as well. She babysat my child one day over the weekend. I opened facebook up during the course of the day to see like 50 pics of my son at the zoo. I had talked to her that morning and she did not even mention they were going to the zoo. I am so glad she is doing fun things with him, and am not upset at the fact they went but am uncomfortable that I found out from facebook he had gone. I am wanting to mention to her that if in the future if/when she babysit that I would be more comfortable if she let me know what they are doing. She could have sent a pic and just said were at the zoo. I am not even sure I should be uncomfortable with the idea of finding out through facebook. A few people I talked to said they wouldnt care if they didnt know what she was doing with their child. I dont expect her to message me every time she were to ever leave like go to the grocery store or something, but I again just feel uneasy about finding this out through facebook. I did say to her that I liked the pictures and I did not know they were going to the zoo. She responded " It was all FIL idea". So I think she knows she should have mentioned it to me and just came up with that crappy excuse. So, is this something I should even worry about and how do I word this?
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